Do you feel uncomfortable with other people?

@averygirl72 (37763)
Philippines
November 16, 2022 1:58am CST
I don't know there are people that I don't feel comfortable. I feel shy mingling with others or sometimes I feel intimated. I feel other people is better than me and I feel little of myself. There are people also with aggressive personalities and I can't mingle with them. Some also belittle me and I find it hard to be with them. I usually feel comfortable with humble people and friendly people
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• Philippines
16 Nov 22
Well I also feel the same so yep.
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@averygirl72 (37763)
• Philippines
17 Nov 22
I think it is normal for everybody
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• Philippines
17 Nov 22
@averygirl72 I think so also
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@popciclecold (35491)
• United States
16 Nov 22
If you are comfortable best not to deal with them.
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@averygirl72 (37763)
• Philippines
17 Nov 22
That is right
@LadyDuck (459561)
• Switzerland
16 Nov 22
I am pretty good dealing with people. Usually people come to me to chat, they find me friendly.
@averygirl72 (37763)
• Philippines
17 Nov 22
I struggle with other people. Sometimes I find it easy. It depends on the personality
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@averygirl72 (37763)
• Philippines
18 Nov 22
@LadyDuck Maybe shyness makes us uncomfortable
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@LadyDuck (459561)
• Switzerland
17 Nov 22
@averygirl72 - My problem is that I am shy. I feel uncomfortable when I enter a place full of people I do not know.
@aninditasen (15772)
• Raurkela, India
16 Nov 22
Humble and friendly people are always comfortable to mingle with. People's personality are known by their body language.
@averygirl72 (37763)
• Philippines
18 Nov 22
@aninditasen Yeah true
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@averygirl72 (37763)
• Philippines
17 Nov 22
I guess it depends on our personalities. We tend to mingle with people that have the same personality like we are
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@aninditasen (15772)
• Raurkela, India
17 Nov 22
@averygirl72 Yes, like minded people can become friends very soon.
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@cabuyogty (2328)
28 Nov 22
Yes , were the same . I dont like my neighbor beside in our house because they always belittle me . I always wish that i will leave them and i can handle my problems with them in the future . I like to mingle with humble people and friendly people .
@averygirl72 (37763)
• Philippines
1 Dec 22
There are people that we easily feel comfortable and people which makes us uncomfortable. We need to learn to adjust ourselves with different people we encounter
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@cabuyogty (2328)
7 Dec 22
@averygirl72 i hope people will adjust because of their rudeness sometimes
• Shenzhen, China
16 Nov 22
I think this is worldwide circumstance,there always are some people progressive to others.No matter where you are,always can meet such people.In addition,there always are some people who like showing off.whatever,just keep away from these people.We should socialize with decent people.
@averygirl72 (37763)
• Philippines
17 Nov 22
I think this is something normal people do experience
@averygirl72 (37763)
• Philippines
18 Nov 22
@jefferson126 Yeah we need to choose the friends we like
• Shenzhen, China
17 Nov 22
@averygirl72 ,of course,there are different sorts of people in the world,so the world is colorful.It told us a principle every people is different individual,we should recognize different people,and pick out some who you wanna make friend with.
@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
16 Nov 22
Many people will always be uncomfortable with people they're unfamiliar with. I also dislike boastful and self-conceited people, so I'm not comfortable mingling with them. Likewise, I like humble but self-confident people, who truly know their worth without putting down somebody or carrying their own chairs.
@averygirl72 (37763)
• Philippines
17 Nov 22
I feel comfortable easily with some people but not all. There are some that seems hard to get along with
@Archie0 (5636)
16 Nov 22
I am not a people person. I have phobia of a crowd. If I’m around strangers or even people who are not my friends I will feel suffocated and anxiety
@averygirl72 (37763)
• Philippines
17 Nov 22
I have social anxiety too. I feel stressed around a lot of people
@jstory07 (134727)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16 Nov 22
I am good with people that I know. Otherwise I am shy until I get to know other people.
@averygirl72 (37763)
• Philippines
17 Nov 22
I understand what you mean. I feel the same way too
@sol_cee (38222)
• Philippines
17 Nov 22
If it's job related, I can manage. But I usually avoid such awkward situations personally.
@averygirl72 (37763)
• Philippines
17 Nov 22
Yeah I feel awkward with some people
@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Nov 22
Many years ago I was easily intimidated but not any more. I have much more confidence now. Not distracted at others opinions any more. I hope you will one day. A sense of humor takes us far in life as well.
@averygirl72 (37763)
• Philippines
16 Nov 22
That is true I need to improve my self confidence and believe in myself that I can interact with different people
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Nov 22
@averygirl72 It takes time, just be patient with yourself.
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@jelena82 (18)
10 Dec 22
Iff people think it okay to belittle you, it is best for you to stay away from them,they will just be a negative presence in your life and no one needs that so you are right not to mingle with them.It takes me time to get friendly with people I like to find out what they are really like and that takes a while..but once I see a persons real personality not the pretend show then I am a good friend.
@Andini (3211)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 22
I feel uncomfortable with those guys when they talk about adult things and while chatting in international friends, i feel often t
@averygirl72 (37763)
• Philippines
17 Nov 22
I don't like people talking about adult things or topics I can't relate
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@Andini (3211)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 22
@averygirl72 yeaa i also Don't like it
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@MrDenata (12195)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 22
You can please anyone, Aubrey. So, its natural things that you feel that way. The older i get, i know that we cant get along with everyone but you have to accept that. I stop thinking about what people think about me. I try to be real but sometimes i'm good at being bad ( i mean i can pretend to be friend with them or nice with them eventho that i dont like them). Just relax and be real aubrey, people who loves they love you for who you are and others who dont? Why bother?
@averygirl72 (37763)
• Philippines
17 Nov 22
Yes it is a natural thing to feel. There are people that are easy to connect with and people that are difficult to connect with
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@MrDenata (12195)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 22
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