What Do You Think of Clingy Women?

@Jenaisle (14079)
Philippines
March 28, 2023 8:31am CST
I was watching this drama series in which the woman was desperately clinging to the man, although the man has told her directly that he has no feelings for her. I was thinking are there really women out there who do this? Based on my experience, many of the women I know, gave up once the man says he doesn't love them or had stopped loving them. This is a question for both males and females. What do you think of clingy women?
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
28 Mar 23
I had a girlfriend once who was clingy... Even after I told her I wasn't interested in dating her anymore, she kept trying to make excuses to spend time with me. I got tired of that really fast. In my ex-girlfriend's case, in my opinion, she needed to grow up and learn to stand on her own before, hopefully, she started dating someone else. (Yes, I know I don't sound nice right now, and I'm sorry for that... but it's the truth.)
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
28 Mar 23
As I was watching the movie, I was thinking to myself about the same thing. Does the woman have no pride at all? I mean if someone doesn't love and want you back, why cling to him? Who is he anyway? . There are billions of good men out there who could be worthy of my love. Yes, there are times that you have to be brutal, so the other party could understand you well and get the message correctly.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
28 Mar 23
@Jenaisle Yes, no pride in self... That's a good way to put it, in my opinion. Thank you for understanding what I was trying to convey. I hate hurting people but there was no other way to make her understand.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
28 Mar 23
@DaddyEvil It would hurt her more if you kept her hanging without being candid about your feelings. I hope you could now find someone you truly love.
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• China
28 Mar 23
Yes, I have a girl next to me, and the boy has made it clear that he wants to separate from the girl, but the girl cannot accept it. She has been contacting the boy in the hope that he can change his mind
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
28 Mar 23
I see, it would be difficult at first but with time she can forget him.
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• China
29 Mar 23
@Jenaisle Yes, I hope she gets better soon
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@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
29 Mar 23
I don't mind if somebody wants to spend time with me. Attachment is good, in my opinion.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
29 Mar 23
I see. then clingy women are for you. We all have our unique likes and dislikes.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
29 Mar 23
@rappeter13 Well, I'm sure you will someday. If you're male, Ms. Right might be waiting down the road for you.
• Romania
29 Mar 23
@Jenaisle the problem is that I have never met one, who got attached to me.
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@RebeccasFarm (86823)
• United States
28 Mar 23
I think they need to get a backbone and get real.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
28 Mar 23
. I think the woman has to learn to love herself first.
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@sol_cee (38222)
• Philippines
28 Mar 23
Maybe the woman was thinking about the adage ‘Fight for your love’.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
28 Mar 23
Well, I would if I'm sure the man loves me, and the reason is something else. But if it's about the absence of love on his part. I would also drop him like a hot potato. Who is he anyway?
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@dya80dya (33652)
28 Mar 23
I know such a person. We all have problems.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
28 Mar 23
I see, I'm not judging anyone, I am just speaking for myself. Yes, there may be other reasons. Until one heard both sides of the issue, judgment should be rendered only then.
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@jstory07 (134602)
• Roseburg, Oregon
29 Mar 23
Those women have no respect for themselves and they should leave the man alone and find someone who will love them for who they are.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
29 Mar 23
Right, I was thinking the same thoughts. Unrequited love is horrible. I'd rather exist without a partner.
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@LindaOHio (157150)
• United States
17 Apr 23
It's a shame that clingy women have feelings for the man but the man is not interested.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
17 Apr 23
It is indeed. I am ashamed myself.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
29 Mar 23
Some are clingy,when others aren't interested in continuing it's better to leave .