Just airing my sentiments
By Jenaisle
@Jenaisle (12834)
Philippines
March 31, 2023 9:17pm CST
I like K-dramas and I watched them often, and I noticed that many women villains in the dramas are pushy and go to extreme lengths to get the men that they fell in love with - even if the men blatantly declared they don't love them in return. I don't know but I find this trait so offending (but I still watch the dramas
).
If they truly love the person they declare to love, they should consider his happiness first and give up their "obsession", so their beloved could be with the person he loves. I just couldn't understand this quite common theme of obsessing over someone. I call it an obsession because true love is not like that.
I am sorry for ranting. I just wanted to express my feelings and want to know your opinions too on this topic. Thank you.

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@cttolledo (5418)
• Philippines
1 Apr
That is true, its like not normal anymore! It's like an obsession of some fans to their idols- spending money, time, and effort just to see them in person in a concert and I know some who traveled to another country just to watch their concert.
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@Jenaisle (12834)
• Philippines
1 Apr
Obsession is not normal. As for fangirling, I have nothing against, it as I am a BTS fan myself (I'm an ARMY) but I would not attend a concert abroad or buy things that I cannot afford. Many ARMYs are already professionals, Many are rich, CEOs even of big companies, doctors, lawyers, and people who earn their keep. Hence, I have nothing against them for spending their own hard-earned money to attend concerts or for buying merchandise.
However, when one comes from a poor family who could barely survive, then the family should come first before any fangirling events.
If I had the means, I would also travel to see them in person. 





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@MGjhaud (23218)
• Philippines
1 Apr
Unfortunately, I'm not familiar with kdrama tv—only because I dislike reading subtitles while watching. But maybe one of these days I'll download at least one show and watch it when the internet is down or something. What can you recommend? I'm into action/crime, espionage, thriller, and mystery mostly but I love a good love story too.
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@RebeccasFarm (102969)
• Wheat Ridge, Colorado
2 Apr
Pleas no sorries..it is fine, rant away, so many of us do here.
I love the K Dramas but had not watched them for a very long time.
Yes they can be extreme in their behaviors.

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@RebeccasFarm (102969)
• Wheat Ridge, Colorado
2 Apr
@Jenaisle Yes I did watch some of the Descendants of the Sun
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@LindaOHio (122381)
• United States
19 Apr
Unrequited love is a sad and hopeless love.
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@Laurakemunto (12035)
• Kenya
1 Apr
I don't love the K drama it's filled with fantasies which can't be found in the real world but it's a good entertainment piece though
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@Jenaisle (12834)
• Philippines
1 Apr
@Laurakemunto I see, so the K-dramas can reach as far as Kenya. Do you have a k-pop group favorite singer?
@Laurakemunto (12035)
• Kenya
1 Apr
@Jenaisle yes I have watched and the exaggeration was totally a turn off even so, I just watch sometimes for entertainment
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@snowy22315 (154406)
• United States
1 Apr
Alot of women (and some men) put themselves in that position unfortunately. You can't make someone love you however.
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@allknowing (120678)
• India
1 Apr
Since it is a drama possible it is only the thinking of the one who wrote the play Just saying.
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@JamesHxstatic (29504)
• Eugene, Oregon
1 Apr
Even if one is successful in pushing himself into a relationship like that, it is not likely to last.
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@srirahayu68 (314)
• Bogor, Indonesia
1 Apr
exactly right .. true love must accept reality, weaknesses and strengths each other
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