How to be a fun person?

By Meli
Indonesia
April 26, 2023 6:32pm CST
Hello friend, how are you? I hope you all in good condition always. :) After a long time I didn't write because I was a little lazy, now I will write another discussion. LOL Come on, let's discuss how to be a fun person? Often I observe someone asking someone else to talk, but don't seem to get a very good response. It's sad, but that's the reality. :( Is it because he is a foreigner that he is not treated as well as you treat someone close to you? Is it because of his annoying and boring personality to talk to? Or other reasons. So, let's discuss here, How do you think you can be a fun person, so that many people are interested in talking and interacting well with you? Thank you. :)
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@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
26 Apr
Nobody interacts with me.
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• Indonesia
26 Apr
I am sorry to hear that. Are you feel lonely?
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@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
26 Apr
@astutimeliana723 No not really .I have a lovely wife She interacts with me
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• Indonesia
26 Apr
@JimBo452020 I am glad to hear it. At leats you have a wife that she will interacts with you. :)
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
26 Apr
I don’t try to be a fun person. People can take me as I am or not at all.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
27 Apr
@JimBo452020 Thank you Jimbo. You actually are a fun guy.
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@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
26 Apr
I have always found you to be good fun Ruby
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• Indonesia
26 Apr
Ahaha, looks like you have a cool personality like me too. LOL
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@AmbiePam (85314)
• United States
26 Apr
I think perhaps cultural differences keep people from interacting on mylot. As for in person interactions, maybe too many of us are just unsure of how to approach another person, and wonder are they being friendly enough? Or, perhaps are they being too familiar?
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@AmbiePam (85314)
• United States
26 Apr
@JimBo452020 I have missed a LOT.
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@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
26 Apr
I think Amber that Mylot changed when all the controversial topics stopped Those topics had people jumping in when ever they strongly agreed or disagreed with what was being posted But that was then and this is now. Not so many people now actually join in fully on threads The posts don't really demand it as such And there are people on here now who would see it as rude me replying to you like this lol
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@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
27 Apr
@AmbiePam I miss a lot as well But don't you agree compared to when you joined in 2007 that it is totally different
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
27 Apr
I don't know... I just talk with people and they usually talk with me...
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
27 Apr
@astutimeliana723 There isn't a "secret". I just enjoy talking with people.
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• Indonesia
27 Apr
But you have the secret, tell me or..
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• Indonesia
27 Apr
@DaddyEvil But but I often comment on other people's posts, and don't get a response and that makes me sad.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
27 Apr
I think being yourself is important
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
27 Apr
@astutimeliana723 but you can be fun with just being yourself, right?
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• Indonesia
27 Apr
Yes you are right. But I want to be fun person.
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• Indonesia
27 Apr
@rakski Yes, you are right. But I feel my personality is fun.
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@rheicel (7068)
• Philippines
27 Apr
I'm a shy person but when it comes to interacting with another person I try to be a good listener to them so I could respond well.
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@rheicel (7068)
• Philippines
27 Apr
@astutimeliana723 Oh dear don't feel that way not all people are mean. I'm sure there are good people out there who want to be friends with you.
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• Indonesia
27 Apr
@rheicel Thank you very much, I hope so. And you are the one of the good people, I like you.
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• Indonesia
27 Apr
Yes, I'm also a shy person. I often worry that my presence will not be accepted, sometimes I even worry that no one wants to be friends with me.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
1 May
It's difficult to be a fun person because I am not naturally so. You may want to scour MyLot to find these fun people. May I recommend one for you? Try interacting with many so you can find out for yourself, Your idea of fun may be different from mine,
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• Indonesia
1 May
Yes, you are right. That's one way to get fun person as friend.
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@RebeccasFarm (86520)
• United States
27 Apr
You can just think you are and magically you will be fun.
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• Indonesia
27 Apr
But I am not magic.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
27 Apr
Yeah, I want to know how to be fun too
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
27 Apr
@astutimeliana723 stranger, danger!
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• Indonesia
27 Apr
In my opinion is being kind and friendly, but no all stranger like it. I often talk to other stranger people and they aren't respons me. SAD.
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• Indonesia
27 Apr
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