What is better for you, Cry it out, or make yourself to calm down?
@lifecoachjerusalem (1529)
Israel
May 21, 2023 6:00am CST
When something happens that makes you sad, what is better for you, to cry until you stop, or to calm yourself down, so you don't cry anymore?
When my husband died, I had lots of different emotions, crying, anger, etc.
But there were many things that had to be taken care of. So instead of crying it out, I calmed myself down.
What is better for you?
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@DaddyEvil (174708)
• United States
21 May 23
I do what I feel like doing at the time...
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@lifecoachjerusalem (1529)
• Israel
21 May 23
I try not to cry it out because when I do I often get a cold and start to cough, so it is not healthy for me to cry too much.
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@DaddyEvil (174708)
• United States
21 May 23
@lifecoachjerusalem Yeah, if you get a cold that easily, then it's better not to cry it out.
Some people look at men weird if we cry about anything... I think that's stupid. Men have the same feelings women have..
@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
21 May 23
I'm usually not the crier . . . although a good cry would make me let all the emotions come out for the moment (I just can't do it these days). I don't know if I'm really calm though. I tend to get fired up and get very productive/active to keep my mind off strong emotions.
@zhangxueying (3362)
• China
21 May 23
I don't cry most of the time, but when I think back to the past, I cry
