Long distance dating

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There are two men who I am chatting and doing video calls over the Internet. I met them on two different dating sites, and one is stuck in New York because of the Hamas war, and wants to come back, but there are no flights, and the other lives in New Jersey. They both seem very nice, and send me stickers on What'sApp, call and we have nice conversations. One, I'll call Harry, told me that he thinks that we would be a good couple and wants to get married when he comes. He's the one in New Jersey, but he has to change his profession in order to live in Israel, so I would probably have to support him along with the rest of my family, who I support. The other, who I'll call Ron lives here in Israel, but is stuck in New York, until there are flights. He owns two properties and lives in the cheaper one. He doesn't like the city that I live in, it is too big. I like Ron better, he is less demanding of me. Harry says, " I want you to do . . " We are in different cities, how can he want me to do things for him? I have not committed myself yet. And I don't know if I really want to. . .