MOMENTS WASTED!

@deemple (191)
Philippines
January 9, 2024 1:20am CST
It's been more than 20 years that I have been separated and I was so very aloof with relationships for my worries of being charged against the law. Even with my kids approval to find someone I can be with to go on with life. Then I met someone and have him as my LDR or Long Distance Relationship. We have been having an affair despite the distance we have been for 15yrs. My kids knew about it. The fact that he even treated my kids like his own. Lately my kids decided to visit their father and found out that he has a live-in partner for almost 20years. And they get along together very well. Well, for me it's fine. Since he's having health problem and the other woman was looking after him. I just feel bad that it wasn't fair on my side because I declined to be in a relationship with someone who wants to live with me. Due to fear of being sued. I am 66 now and wishing I can live a life with someone who loves me and I loved too. But I guess it's too late to be in that relationship anymore. If I only knew it in my early 50's I would have moved on with the man I want to be with and live a happy life. Life is so unfair. I feel sad I was spared with love & joy. :(
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• China
9 Jan
You should divorce your ex husband now
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@LadyDuck (456975)
• Switzerland
9 Jan
May be they are Catholic, divorce is not an option.
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• China
10 Jan
@LadyDuck This is a bit difficult to do
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@LadyDuck (456975)
• Switzerland
10 Jan
@zhangxueying It's against the Catholic religion.
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@LadyDuck (456975)
• Switzerland
9 Jan
I see no reason why you should have been sued, you were separated.
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@deemple (191)
• Philippines
14 Jan
Yes Anna. He has betrayed me from the very beginning.
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@LadyDuck (456975)
• Switzerland
14 Jan
@deemple He was the guilty one and not you.
@Shavkat (137163)
• Philippines
9 Jan
I think you can find the right one for you. You do not need to be in fear because of the bad things happened in the past.
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@deemple (191)
• Philippines
14 Jan
Yeah right Shavkat... I just realized lots of my moments wasted to be with the right guy. But I can just say, that's life. I can't do anything about it anymore. :(
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Jan
Sorry. I think it is not too late to move in with a man you love. You can still try.