Nearly 1 30, and George is done for the day.

@kaylachan (84834)
Daytona Beach, Florida
January 18, 2024 12:22pm CST
This morning George had two therapy appoitments back to back. He's doing pretty well, even though it's hard for me to get some stuff done. Not for a lack of trying. I'm a little tired, but nothing I can't handle. Right now George is trying to watch t.v. and I'm giving him some space. Give me a chance to get stuff done.
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@celticeagle (189927)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Jan 24
I hope you are being good to yourself.
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@celticeagle (189927)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Jan 24
@kaylachan ......I know, Hon. But sometimes we are so involved in our loved one's care we forget about our own needs.
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@kaylachan (84834)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Jan 24
@celticeagle Yeah, I know. However, George's not an invalid. He does a lot for himself. Sure, I have more things to wash, but still do laundry two-three times a week. I still do the things I'd been doing prior to his stroke. I just change how we do things like grocery shopping because I can't leave him alone right now. He's getting around much better, and we're not doing thickened liquids this weekend, so that's one less task. I do have to get with his doctor though about getting a refill on his blood thinner. But, again, ordering meds and messaging the doctor were things I'd done online on his behalf prior to his stroke. The hard part is when his afasia kicks in and I can't make sense of what he wants. Other things are just going to take a lot of patience.
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@kaylachan (84834)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Jan 24
Of course I am. If I don't, no one else will be.
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@dya80dya (36805)
19 Jan 24
Some people never give space to their husbands/wives.
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@kaylachan (84834)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Jan 24
I try to do the best I can in regards to that. It's not always easy sometimes. Not for a lack of trying. There's only so far you can go in a home.
@FourWalls (86778)
• United States
19 Jan 24
I can imagine it’s tiring, no matter how much you love someone. Do take a few minutes for yourself while George has his private time. Still praying for you!
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@kaylachan (84834)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Jan 24
We aren't spending a lot of time apart. When he goes to bed, then I'll take a bath or do something to relax. He will sometimes beg me to come to bed, but right now that's what I do, wind down before I join him.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54718)
• United States
18 Jan 24
I’m glad that he’s doing better.
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@kaylachan (84834)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Jan 24
Yeah, I just things are catching up to him.
@wolfgirl569 (135910)
• Marion, Ohio
18 Jan 24
Make sure you get rest too
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@kaylachan (84834)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Jan 24
Of course I do, don't worry.
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@RasmaSandra (98072)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Jan 24
As long as things are progressing give yourself some time to rest up also. I hope you both have a good weekend up ahead,
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@kaylachan (84834)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Jan 24
I rest, but we all have those days. George took a nap this afternoon.
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@LindaOHio (222623)
• United States
19 Jan 24
Try and carve a few minutes for yourself out of every day. Have a good weekend.