Making a mountain out of a mole hill. Do you know anyone like this?
By Greenery8
@grenery8 (2351)
Croatia (Hrvatska)
April 4, 2024 1:41pm CST
Yes, this is a very used expression in my language and i tend to use it very often.
Today, i had a similar situation like this and i am still recovering. Some people make so big issues over nothing while there are actual big issues out there;war, sickness and i am having hard time tolerating this.
I had a good day and bam,in the evening, one small joke from my side and everything is ruined. I need a positive vibe more and maybe constantly.
Well...
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11 responses
@kaylachan (57974)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Apr
You're in charge of your feelings. You can let a bad joke rouine your entire day or feel bad about it and get over it. Enjoy the rest of your day.
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@grenery8 (2351)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
4 Apr
your experience about this kind of people? i have a kidney autoimmune disease that i recently found out was chronic and it could never be treated, just worse or better and i can't be super chill to a person who got mad at me just because i joked can she hurry up with the cooking. i cook to her all the time and i feel very tired to be silent all the time while she can joke and talk nonsense all the time.
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@kaylachan (57974)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Apr
@grenery8 You chose to take that personally, when you didn't haveto. I'm tired all the time, too. I am chronically ill, too. But I don't let that get to me. It's okay to let something upset you, but you're the only one that's going to suffer for it. Not everyone else around you.
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@grenery8 (2351)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
5 Apr
@kaylachan my parents were affected too. this sibling of mine did similiar thing 2days ago and brings out her toxicity wherever she goes. with her colleagues and friends, she is always in good mood, with her family, she is like this. easier said than done cause this was a chance to reunite as a family and it failed again. thank you just, i need more light in my life.
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@RebeccasFarm (86811)
• United States
5 Apr
Well I know someone to have the last word always.
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@grenery8 (2351)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
5 Apr
@RebeccasFarm thank you. i felt positive energy within me and should continue in that direction
. She is judgmental even though she says she does not like judgmental people herself. I cannot stand this negative vibe @grenery8 (2351)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
5 Apr
this is my sister too. i gave her so many chances, apologized even but she acted high,apologized 2days ago too, just that she can make up the reasons about me. also, she doesn't care about my health issues. she said she will support me but i have to reflect on my mistakes. geez.
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@grenery8 (2351)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
8 Apr
@much2say mine apologizes now and then and with conditions. you are completely right, that awful vibe. after many times when i thought it worths saving relation, i came to conclusion that just greeting her is the best choice. last 12years were more negative than positive. i lost my youth in this. yeah...
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@besweet (9861)
• Ireland
5 Apr
@grenery8 Yes we are friends for years. She was there and ready to help when I needed her in the past and I have really appreciated her kindness through the years. The drama is part of her character, but usually behind all that she has a point. I do need a break sometimes but we get along really well.
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@grenery8 (2351)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
6 Apr
@besweet when she helped you, then that means something
.this person of mine is a teacher in her real life and instead of listening or helping people, she rather likes giving life lessons or preaching and, i don't like that. she wasn't there for me, i didn't have an easy path like her and would appreciate old fashioned help or not. yeah...
.this person of mine is a teacher in her real life and instead of listening or helping people, she rather likes giving life lessons or preaching and, i don't like that. she wasn't there for me, i didn't have an easy path like her and would appreciate old fashioned help or not. yeah...1 person likes this
@Deepizzaguy (94734)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
4 Apr
The sports media makes a lot of mountains out of mole hills regarding female basketball star Caitlyn Clark being successful in college basketball because of her race.
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@AmbiePam (85662)
• United States
5 Apr
I read one of your responses here. You didn’t do anything wrong, and if someone is too insensitive to realize you are justified in feeling the way you do, that’s their problem with their lack of understanding. And I mean that about other Mylotters interpretation too.
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@grenery8 (2351)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
5 Apr
thank you. i was tired before my health issues with this sibling and now too. easter was a chance to bring us together but no, she had to make it burn. and i was so happy yesterday. with her and her attitude towards me, i feel like i am not allowed to be happy and that sucks. i guess that's it.
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@snowy22315 (170268)
• United States
5 Apr
There are aliot of people who seem to think every little thing is a catradzrophe.
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@grenery8 (2351)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
6 Apr
i think we need. it may be boring to some but to destroy people's peace over nothing, i don't have any strength to participate in that anymore. thank you. i needed half of day to get better and when i see this person;only hello, thank you and goodbye, that is it.
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@dgobucks226 (34393)
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10 Apr
There are some who overreact to most everything that affects them. It keeps them from ever being really happy for very long.
Sometimes it's best to let it out and then get over it...
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@Shivram59 (31910)
• India
5 Apr
@greenery8 Such people are found everywhere.Even in my neighborhood too.Recently a quarrel between two small children ended up with gunshots exchanged between their fathers and one of them getting injured in his arm.He is now in the hospital and the other is handed over to the police.
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@Shivram59 (31910)
• India
7 Apr
@grenery8 Yes;some antisocial men are now in jail.A good news.
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@grenery8 (2351)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
7 Apr
@Shivram59 yes, at least some good news.
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