regret always comes later

@May2k8 (18592)
Indonesia
October 28, 2024 7:18am CST
A week has passed, my mother still remembers the suffering of her very stubborn sister, no one could persuade her to get the right treatment. Time continues to pass, since the end of April 2024 she has never been honest about the disease she is suffering from. When she could still talk she said it was just stomach upset because every time she ate she would vomit. 5 months passed and she was rushed to the hospital and the doctors had given up because no food or infusion could get into her body. Because the distance to get there is very far, we need 10 hours to get there. Unfortunately her (my aunty) condition is getting worse and unconscious, only gasping for breath. The next day we returned to Jakarta and precisely on October 21, 2024 at around 10 pm West Indonesia Time we received news that she had passed away. If we count the number of deaths, it is greater than the number of births this year.
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@grenery8 (17538)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
29 Oct
i am sorry for your loss. at least she's not suffering anymore. yes, in recent time, birth rates are really low.
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@May2k8 (18592)
• Indonesia
30 Oct
Thank you, when I was in the hospital I couldn't bear to see her suffering for 10 days, she still wanted to live in this world but her soul was already very serious, her liver and heart were damaged, it is possible that her kidneys were also unable to process foods to become vitamins.
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@May2k8 (18592)
• Indonesia
31 Oct
@grenery8 Unfortunately when I was there her eyes were not open and her mouth could not speak anymore, she could still hear, it seemed like she was still trying to survive but her condition was very serious and it was no longer possible for her to survive.
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@grenery8 (17538)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
30 Oct
@May2k8 even one organ failing is enough and,more,dangerous. I am sorry you had to see her in that state but at least you were there for her which she surely appreciated.
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@snowy22315 (191040)
• United States
28 Oct
So sorry about your aunt.
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@May2k8 (18592)
• Indonesia
29 Oct
There are many things that cannot be told here, every family has its own problems, including here, I still have to take care of my parents who are sick and have not recovered yet. All efforts have been made but nothing has been able to really work (still rely on medicines).
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• Philippines
29 May
I am sorry to hear that. I hope your mom has already moved on from her sister's passing. God bless.
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@May2k8 (18592)
• Indonesia
29 May
Thank you, my mother feels that her life is meaningless since she has difficulty standing up from her seat.
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@May2k8 (18592)
• Indonesia
29 May
@luisadannointed But I can't always help my mother, I keep looking for the best solution for that.
• Philippines
29 May
@May2k8 But as long as ou are there for your mom, I think she will feel less sad.
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@jobelbojel (36866)
• Philippines
5 Jan
I am sorry about her passing. If she could have been honest about what is going on to her health.
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@May2k8 (18592)
• Indonesia
5 Jan
thank you, the problem is that the doctor also made her down since the doctor said that it was due to age.
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@May2k8 (18592)
• Indonesia
6 Jan
@jobelbojel (36866)
• Philippines
5 Jan
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@jstory07 (144608)
• Roseburg, Oregon
9 Nov
Sorry for your loss.
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@May2k8 (18592)
• Indonesia
9 Nov
life must go on, no matter how sad we are!
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@jstory07 (144608)
• Roseburg, Oregon
12 Jun
@May2k8 Yes very true and hard to move on without the one that we love.
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@May2k8 (18592)
• Indonesia
12 Jun
@jstory07 She is the sister who is closest to my mother, now my mother feels that there is no one left to exchange ideas with.
@MrDenata (12916)
• Indonesia
31 Dec
I'm so sorry for your loss, My friend.
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@May2k8 (18592)
• Indonesia
31 Dec
Thank you, we always remember people who are no longer in the world.
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@May2k8 (18592)
• Indonesia
31 Dec
@MrDenata Nothing lasts forever, sooner or later everything will return to its original state.
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@MrDenata (12916)
• Indonesia
31 Dec
@May2k8 ofc, we always remember them.
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@Jenaisle (14673)
• Philippines
28 May
My condolences and prayers for you and your family.
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@May2k8 (18592)
• Indonesia
28 May
Thank you, it is all destiny and no one can change it.
@RebeccasFarm (95240)
• Arvada, Colorado
12 Nov
I am so very sorry..I know what you mean about stubborn in getting help and care
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@Tampa_girl7 (52617)
• United States
13 May
I am sorry for your loss.
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@May2k8 (18592)
• Indonesia
13 May
Thank you, I can't believe that half a year has passed and my mother doesn't want to go back to her village anymore because she's afraid of remembering it again.
@Neil43 (3960)
7 Feb
Yes. That is true. If we started to feel something bad about our health, action must be taken immediately.
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@May2k8 (18592)
• Indonesia
7 Feb
That's why there is a saying prevention is better than cure, if it's already serious then there's nothing we can do.