My ranting urge calmed down!!

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@anya12adwi (10285)
India
March 9, 2025 1:24pm CST
I checked in here after 2 months and checked my latest post! I said there I will rant more about the opportunist girl in the next post! So the girl then irked my parents and my brother too! She requested my mom to give her ride to wedding venue. They booked the ride but she went to her home to get the wedding envelope! She made them wait 15 minutes and the driver was very angry on my parents! She reached our home, called me and asked if my brother could drop her to my parents where they are waiting for her... So my brother dropped her and my brother was angry on me!! We then got ready quickly and then rushed to the venue on scooter! There I saw the girl totally ignoring me when I waved at her so as to tighten her saree!!! There was another friend, she said that this girl and her mom are very opportunist!! As she knew her attitude, she denied her any help!! She would talk to you till she gets her work done and once the work is done, she will behave as if she does not know you!! I took my lesson and will never help without any context and background knowledge!
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
9 Mar 25
Well she certainly is not a friend! Don't stay away so long! Hope you are doing well!
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
4 Apr 25
@anya12adwi There is nothing like the present time to get started with anything and everything!
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@anya12adwi (10285)
• India
9 Apr 25
@kareng That is right!
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@anya12adwi (10285)
• India
4 Apr 25
Now is the right time to get here active, I guess!
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@DaddyEvil (172835)
• United States
9 Mar 25
Yeah, there are people like that everywhere. It only takes one time of them doing something like that for me to ignore a person completely, even if they try to be friendly again. They are no use to anyone. (We call them "trash" here. )
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@DaddyEvil (172835)
• United States
4 Apr 25
@anya12adwi Unfortunately, that's not how it works. You have to figure out who they are on your own but you can tell others who they are if you think your friends will believe you. You can save some people from the same problems that way.
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@anya12adwi (10285)
• India
4 Apr 25
Hope they had this warning written on their faces before they approach us!!
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@anya12adwi (10285)
• India
9 Apr 25
@DaddyEvil Yes!! True!! We have to be figure out on our own!
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@allknowing (153574)
• India
10 Mar 25
Welcome back Most these days are oportunists
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@anya12adwi (10285)
• India
4 Apr 25
Thank You! Yes almost all are!
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@kaylachan (84109)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Mar 25
Well, humans will be human.
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@anya12adwi (10285)
• India
4 Apr 25
The rational animal!
@rakski (152597)
• Philippines
10 Mar 25
Sounds like a frustrating experience!. Some people really know how to take advantage of kindness
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@anya12adwi (10285)
• India
4 Apr 25
She knew how to get her work done! She really does not bother if someone is helping out of kindness or frustration!
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@Dreamerby (10112)
• Calcutta, India
9 Mar 25
Long time no see! How are you?
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@anya12adwi (10285)
• India
4 Apr 25
Was lazy and also occupied too! Now have to be back for good! I am good and you?
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@Dreamerby (10112)
• Calcutta, India
5 Apr 25
@anya12adwi doing okay...surviving..existing
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@anya12adwi (10285)
• India
9 Apr 25
@Dreamerby That's all we can do till we die or till earth exists!
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@DianneN (254495)
• United States
13 Feb
My father once told me that if you have one true friend in life, that was a lot. He was right!
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@DianneN (254495)
• United States
24 Apr
@anya12adwi I can believe the wisdom of your father. People aren’t always what they seem.
@anya12adwi (10285)
• India
24 Apr
Yes. My father too would spin a story regarding true friends.
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@sarik1 (7778)
10 Mar 25
Hope that you have a good day.
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@anya12adwi (10285)
• India
4 Apr 25
You too!
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@Shivram59 (49120)
• India
16 Mar 25
Some persons are like this. Here a girl who is a lawyer is my sister's friend. We were going to Rourkella. She,requested my sister to take her with us. There she had,her lunch and dinner and left the restaurant and we had to pay her bill.
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@anya12adwi (10285)
• India
4 Apr 25
She should have paid!! Lawyers do also know very well how to mooch off from people!
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@anya12adwi (10285)
• India
9 Apr 25
@Shivram59 Yes!! The host recently came and was saying that girl is making her go crazy! That girl was very furious on her as she did not tell her about her intimate engagement ceremony!
@Shivram59 (49120)
• India
5 Apr 25
@anya12adwi She should have; but she didn't.But we have learned our lesson.
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