I find myself lusting over someone else

Lagos, Nigeria
March 14, 2025 10:45am CST
????Is it normal to find oneself wanting some one other than your partner, because the feeling is quite strange to me.wanting someone who my present partner is dare I say "hotter" than,yet I can't seem to get him out of mind??
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5 responses
Max Crisp
@Orson_Kart (7993)
• United Kingdom
15 Mar 25
It’s human nature to find others attractive. I have a long list, and it gets longer every day.
Max Crisp
@Orson_Kart (7993)
• United Kingdom
16 Mar 25
@fracis22 I might have to add you to the list.
Zitapatrick
@fracis22 (55)
• Lagos, Nigeria
16 Mar 25
@Orson_Kart hahahaha
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Zitapatrick
@fracis22 (55)
• Lagos, Nigeria
15 Mar 25
Hahahaha you are so real and funny
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Vicki, #1 Creek Girl
@1creekgirl (44515)
• United States
14 Mar 25
Are you married? If so, try to work on your relationship to improve it so you won't be wanting someone else.
Zitapatrick
@fracis22 (55)
• Lagos, Nigeria
15 Mar 25
Yes I am married
adnileb
@adnileb (5287)
• Philippines
1 May
It is normal. We are humans and we have feelings. But we also have our brain/mind to control our feelings when this situation happens. It's normal to get attracted, just don't get attached.
LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (52623)
• Philippines
14 Mar 25
Don't entertain the thoughts. If you love your partner it would easy avoid and fight. that would be cheating indirectly.
Zitapatrick
@fracis22 (55)
• Lagos, Nigeria
14 Mar 25
Yes I understand that
Rimps
@Rimps85 (3057)
• India
14 Mar 25
as a human being that's normal...but the question is, whether its ethical or not
Zitapatrick
@fracis22 (55)
• Lagos, Nigeria
14 Mar 25
Thank you for this