Zen story: A real friend always remains a real friend

The Zen master was a friend to all including to his special friend
@innertalks (22864)
Australia
April 28, 2025 8:09pm CST
The old Zen master had lived in the Zen monastery for all of his long life, and his friends were mostly only his fellow monks, and students. There was one other friend, though, who would visit with him, about once every six months, and of who, nobody in the Monastery knew who he was, but they had speculated amongst themselves, that it might have been a relative, a brother of their master, perhaps. The master, and his friend, would spend about an hour talking in his room, and then the friend would leave. Nobody knew what they had talked about, except for the master, and his friend, of course. And then, after many years of this friendship going on, one curious student, took it upon himself to hide under the master's bed, when he saw the friend approaching from a distance. He wanted to hear their conversation. The master sat down on his bed, and the friend sat in the master's one chair, in his room. For one hour they sat, and said nothing, and then the friend simply left. The master left his room, and walked some of the way with his friend to the gate of the monastery, and the student then made his escape from the master's room, from under his bed too. This friendship was really a friendship of the heart, and nothing needed to be said. They were truly friends of the heart, and their hearts were open to the silent interconnectedness between themselves. True friends are connected in heart, and every heart needs such a friend. The old master, after waving goodbye to his friend, turned around, and he walked back into his monastery. He found the student who had hid under his bed, and he simply said: "Love has its own way of communicating with another, but hidden beneath love, can be an empty mind too, if the love does not spill from the heart, but tries to work itself out from the mind, as to what it thinks is love. Feel love, do not think it." "Friendship is like a shady tree, on a hot day, but do not dig around its roots, to see where its shade might come from." Photo Credit: The photo used in this article was sourced from the free media site, pixabay.com The Zen master was a friend to all, including to his special friend.
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@jstory07 (144610)
• Roseburg, Oregon
29 Apr
Special friends just want to spend time together. They do not need to talk for hours.
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@innertalks (22864)
• Australia
29 Apr
Yes, that is so very true, and it was true here in my story too.
@Shiva49 (27308)
• Singapore
29 Apr
The puzzle remains unsolved as the curious student is still left wondering at the silence despite the old Zen master clarifying it. The silence was not much ado about nothing but the result of a deep understanding and enjoying the moments together. Incessant chatter will end up as plain noise without the underlying love and understanding.
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@innertalks (22864)
• Australia
29 Apr
The old Zen master gave a few hints to the student, and left him to work the rest out for himself. Feeding someone too much in one sitting just stuffs their minds with excessive knowledge, that they can not yet process. The old master spoke to the student's heart, and his love did get through, and the student learnt a bit about true silence, and deeper understanding, then too. The student felt the love, as he was never punished for his misdeed, and nor where any other students told about it either.
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@innertalks (22864)
• Australia
30 Apr
@Shiva49 Quite often the master already knows who the next master will be, and so trains, and prepares, them for the role. Yes, maybe this curious student will be the next Zen master of this monastery.
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@Shiva49 (27308)
• Singapore
30 Apr
@innertalks "Curiosity kills the cat", but in this instant the sagacious Zen master lived up to his true stature by leaving the student with a lesson to ponder over. Maybe that should spur his curiosity in the right direction, the spark that ignites, to become the next Zen master.
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3 May
We used to be very warm friends Beats the sunshine We used to be friends like caterpillars Wish you were a butterfly Now we are walking far away You distanced yourself from me because of something Maybe I'm going too far But that's because I love you Friendship is like a cocoon Turning caterpillars into butterflies Friendship is like a cocoon Things that don't change easily become beautiful Friendship is like a cocoon Understand that friends face differences Friendship is like a cocoon Na na na na na We used to be very warm friends Beats the sunshine We used to be friends like caterpillars Wish you were a butterfly Now we are walking far away You distanced yourself from me because of something Maybe I'm going too far But that's because I love you Friendship is like a cocoon Turning caterpillars into butterflies Friendship is like a cocoon Things that don't change easily become beautiful Friendship like a cocoon Understand friends face differences Friendship like a cocoon Cocoon
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@innertalks (22864)
• Australia
3 May
Yes, real friendship is a space that friends can rest peacefully in, being each other, in realness to each other, without the veneers of falseness present at any time. Yes, real friendship is about love, and connecting in love, and bathing in each others love, for each other too.