I think i'm in love with a lesbain.

United States
December 2, 2006 2:44pm CST
So I have this friend, we've been best friends forever, but now I can't go 10 mins without seeing her, and every time we talk, I feel so happy and stuff, but when she's not around, I'm so sad. I really think I'm in love with her, but she's a lesbain and doesn't like men, what should I do?
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@vehaileairu (2286)
• Philippines
2 Dec 06
friends of lovers - where are you? its a straight to curvy life...
first of all, how old are you? infatuations of early ages from same sexes develop much when in youngsters.. every teenager undergoes confusing gender swing. and remember, its not only teens, its an era of same gender infatuation.. thus this develop for some reasons that the opposite wont have given it to you. it seems completely who yo are when you are with her, coz she understands you not like anyone who did, because she made a difference in your life. its fine to fall in love... but remember how she feels for you, you may get upset for all she treat you is no other than bestfriend.. ^_^ goodluck..
• United States
2 Dec 06
Thanks your advice should really help I think, I'm 19 and she's 18 by the way.
• Philippines
2 Dec 06
theres nothing wrong with love, infact its wrong "not" to love.. thank you. i hope it goes well for both of you..^_^
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• United States
3 Dec 06
agreed, i think that is the best comment. its wrong if you dont love!!
@glummy (193)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
You should at least try and communicate with her. You don;t have to pursue her. Just let her know that you're falling for her. If she really is your friend, she'll understand. And maybe, she could also fall in love with you as well. This is quite possible. She is also a female.
• Romania
2 Dec 06
Try to be subtle and tell her how you feel.
@JoMo23 (50)
• United States
2 Dec 06
You should tell her how you feel. It probably won't work, but at least the air will be cleared.
• Italy
3 Dec 06
sure that is a beautiful problem