You Can Lead a Horse to the Water...But...

@porwest (102424)
United States
June 27, 2025 7:03pm CST
You see, the thing is, I have spent a lot of time on here talking to people about ways to save money. Right down to the penny. I do it because I know money can be saved, people can get ahead despite their circumstances, and I WANT to help them. So, I could give you 100 ways to save one cent, which of course leads to $1. The problem is, what I usually get in return are laughing emoticons followed by the ways that someone can waste 5 cents 100 ways. I know it's controversial, even painful. But I have said very clearly many times, "The rich get richer, and the poor get poorer...for very good reason." Unfortunately, it's not rocket science. I know it all falls on deaf ears. I mean, why listen to a guy who knows a thing or two about money, who never made a lot of money, who made a lot of money despite that? What could he possibly know? But I will keep trying. I'll keep putting my best foot forward and talking about it. Because if it gets into even just ONE head, that's what matters. If ONE person gets out the rut, it's worth it. And if just ONE person says, "Maybe he knows what he's talking about..." I've accomplished my goal. As for anyone else? Well, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't force it to drink. You can't be mad at a few dead horses who died of thirst at the watering hole that refused to drink. It is what it is.
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@Jenaisle (15063)
• Philippines
28 Jun
I can understand how you feel. I would feel frustrated too if the solution is just there, but many refuse to listen. "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't force it to drink." Rest assured that I have listened and will start saving my cents.
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@kareng (76740)
• United States
28 Jun
I agree and have always been a penny pincher. That was the only way we were able to do so many camping trips when our girls were growing up.
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@porwest (102424)
• United States
28 Jun
@kareng There are so many concepts out there to learn and heed, "Pay yourself first," "Money makes money," "Getting rich is not about making a lot of money, it's about keeping as much of what you do earn as you can," and so on and so forth. I think a lot of people who see people with money don't fully grasp how they got there. They think it was luck, or maybe they just had a really good job, or they inherited something. Most millionaires are self-made. In other words, they started poor, and became rich, and many of them accomplished it not through making a lot of money, but by employing basic commonly known strategies that work over time. Like I always say about money, getting rich, and achieving financial freedom, it's rarely about the money itself. What's more important is the mindset. If the mindset is right, the amount of money one has to work with to achieve the goal doesn't matter. Because as well, money is rarely the problem. The mindset can either work with you or it can work against you. A successful lawyer, for example, who earns 6 figures a year could be poor while another man who ekes out a meager $30k a year could be rich. It's all about how they view their money, and what they do with it. I am a penny pincher too. Always have been. But I think a lot of people see that as someone who miserly sits in the dark and never has any fun or luxuries while he counts his pennies. The reality is quite the opposite. Pinching pennies actually creates more opportunities to do the things you want, when you want, on your terms, and not have to rely on credit or other things to do what you want.
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@kareng (76740)
• United States
28 Jun
@porwest Yes, Yes, and YES!
28 Jun
Oh I am a saver. Every penny counts See a penny pick it up Don't waste money Make a profit on everything I sell My horse will drink It won't die
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@LindaOHio (193298)
• United States
28 Jun
All I keep hearing from people is: "Well, you never had children; so it was easier for you to save money." Not entirely true.
@Nakitakona (57316)
• Philippines
28 Jun
To save for rainy days. That's is important but some have failed to do that. Before I found hsrd to make ends meet for could hardly save even a penny. Now I start for it's hard to find help if I'm in trouble financially .