What's with the new generation? / myLot

India

July 8, 2025 3:19am CST

I am not complaining but wondering what has changed that they have no emotions as far as I have observed. These very own youngsters where in my life when they were little and I have lost count of the little things I did for them to make them happy. They are now all grown and it is at that get together when they met me, they just came to have fun as they knew I am a good organizer. They had their fill but not a single person got back to me and thanked me. They were honey and spice at that get together not having an iota of guilt that they had not kept in touch with me for years. What say?

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rsa101

@rsa101 (38979)

• Philippines

15h

That really hits deep, and you’re not alone in feeling that way. It’s painful when the people you poured so much love and time into seem to have forgotten those moments—or worse, take them for granted. Especially when all you expected in return was a little appreciation or even just a warm “thank you.” But here's the thing—people change, and sometimes they get caught up in their own lives and forget the importance of gratitude. It’s not right, but it happens. Don’t let their lack of acknowledgment take away from the goodness you gave. Your kindness shaped their memories, even if they don’t say it out loud. Maybe one day, they’ll look back and realize the love and effort you gave. In the meantime, keep your heart light and give to those who reflect the same warmth back. You deserve that.

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@allknowing (149029)

• India

14h

What I wanted to highlight was not so much about me but the trend in general and what has caused them to behave the way they do.

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rsa101

@rsa101 (38979)

• Philippines

14h

@allknowing Ah, I see now—you're pointing to something deeper than just your own experience. And you're absolutely right to question it. There does seem to be a growing trend where younger generations, in general, appear more distant or emotionally detached from those who once played a big role in their lives. It’s not just about forgetting to say thank you—it’s about a shift in how relationships are valued and maintained. A lot of it may be due to how fast life moves now. With everything being instant—messages, likes, distractions—it’s easy for real human connections to get lost. Emotional awareness sometimes takes a back seat to convenience and self-focus. But that doesn’t mean care and respect are gone altogether—it might just be buried under the noise of the times. Still, it’s worth talking about, reminding each other that gratitude and staying connected shouldn’t go out of style.

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@allknowing (149029)

• India

14h

@rsa101 Could it be the same as how animals behave? Take my pet cat Peppie for example When he is hungry he will circle round my feet and silly me thinks just look how much he loves me But once he is fed he is on his own