Taloctoc - the far-flung paradise in my childhood

@Jenaisle (16076)
Philippines
August 4, 2025 9:02pm CST
As I have previously mentioned, I belong to a cultural minority called the I-Kalingas. People also call us 'Igorots' because our forefathers originated from the far-flung mountainous regions of the Cordilleras. In the Kalinga village of Taloctoc, Tanudan, daily life was rooted in simplicity and communal connection. Christmas celebrations were modest. Children performed school programs, caroled through the night, lit bonfires, and sang the Salidummay, while some elders would douse carolers with cold water in jest Kitchens used only minimal seasoning. The fresh fish is simmered in water with garlic or ginger, sometimes wrapped in banana leaves and cooked in bamboo to infuse it with a natural aroma. Vegetables and meats were similarly boiled, sans the spices. Diners dipped boiled meats into rock salt and red pepper rather than cooking with condiments to preserve the natural flavor. People dressed practically, and cleanliness mattered more than style. Torn or patched clothes weren’t a sign of poverty: even wealthy individuals might wear tattered garments despite owning gold or vast rice fields Throughout the year, life lacked complexity. Festivities were communal and low-key, governed by tradition rather than ceremony. Ownership and status were reflected in community values rather than outward displays. While this post is rooted in my childhood memories of older times, it highlights a cultural ethos of honesty, mutual respect, and unpretentious living in Kalinga villages like Taloctoc. I have not been there for almost 40 years. I wish I could go back and enjoy once again a refreshing dip in the clear river waters, and taste the fresh flavor of guavas growing in the wild, while waiting for the others to catch fish in the river for food. Those were the days! The photo is of Taloctoc. Photo credit.
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@rsa101 (39675)
• Philippines
5 Aug
What a beautiful and heartfelt tribute to a way of life that carries so much meaning, even decades later. Your memories paint such a vivid picture—of simplicity, connection, and a deep respect for nature and community. In a world that’s often racing toward more, your reflection reminds us of the richness found in less. Taloctoc sounds like a place where values weren’t spoken—they were lived. The kind of place where joy came from shared laughter, fresh river fish, and the warmth of tradition. Even after 40 years, the pull of those memories shows just how deeply rooted that life remains in your heart. Thank you for sharing a piece of it with us.
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@Jenaisle (16076)
• Philippines
5 Aug
Yes, all you said is true. Life is simple but profound there. There's beauty in simple little things. You're welcome to my barrio, Taloctoc!
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@rsa101 (39675)
• Philippines
5 Aug
@Jenaisle That sounds like an interesting place, and I'm glad you are proud of your heritage. Some people from minority tribes hide their heritage and do not share it with many people, but you accept and are proud to be one of them.
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@Jenaisle (16076)
• Philippines
23h
@rsa101 I am always proud of my ethnicity. The folks are honest people with wit and intelligence. How can I not be proud of them? If you have met my brother, you would be amazed at how vocal he is about being an i-Kalinga.
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@DaddyEvil (155967)
• United States
5 Aug
I wonder how much of what you remember is still the same in those villages? I'm sure it was a beautiful childhood.
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@Jenaisle (16076)
• Philippines
22h
Some of my schoolmates are informing me that several things have changed, such as there's a road now connecting the village to the nearest town, there's also running water now, and electricity. We didn't have these things when I was growing up. We have to hike two mountains, fetch water from a deep well in the riverbank, and use gas lamps or torches at night. Yes, despite all these, it was a beautiful childhood.
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@DaddyEvil (155967)
• United States
22h
@Jenaisle When I was a child, we didn't have running water in the house and carried it from a well in our yard into the house to fill a tin bathtub for bathing and the bucket with a common dipper was used for drinking in the house. We did have electricity but had a wood burning stove to heat the house in the winter and another one in the kitchen for mom to use to cook our meals during the winter months. During the summer months, there was a huge cast iron wood burning stove outside mom cooked our meals on so the house didn't heat up. I had the whole outdoors to play in and mom only required that we kids had to be home by 6 pm for supper every evening. Then we did our chores and stayed in the house until the next morning. (There was also an outhouse out by the barn for natural functions since there was no running water for a bathroom in the house.) I think I had a good childhood, too.
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@Jenaisle (16076)
• Philippines
1h
@DaddyEvil Wow, it's almost similar to mine. We do our thing in an outhouse too because there was no running water,
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@AmbiePam (101189)
• United States
5 Aug
Oh, I wish I could send you back there, and also go with you! It sounds like such a magical place. How many hours is it away from you now?
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@Jenaisle (16076)
• Philippines
23h
It is about 16 hours away - previously, it would take two days to travel because we had to trek two mountains before reaching the village. Now there's a small road that connects the main town to the village (barrio).
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@id_peace (16347)
• Singapore
23h
Will you be retiring there in the future?
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@Jenaisle (16076)
• Philippines
23h
I don't think so, because all my ancestors left for the stars and my kids are settled now in the city.
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@rakski (145639)
• Philippines
5 Aug
I always wanted to go to Kalinga. The farthest I've been north is in Besao, Bangaan, Sagada, Banaue and Bontoc. I always appreciate the beauty and simplicity of living in such environment
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@Jenaisle (16076)
• Philippines
1h
@rakski Perhaps, when a helicopter could bring us there, would you like to come? A pipe dream, but who knows?
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@Jenaisle (16076)
• Philippines
22h
You should visit Kalinga and see for yourself the Sleeping Beauty, Mother Nature at its best, and the surrounding terrain. It's a paradise.
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@rakski (145639)
• Philippines
16h
@Jenaisle I would want that. But I'm not sure I can still go there. I'm not that young adventurous girl anymore
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@RasmaSandra (87694)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
8h
I miss the Catskill Mountains of New York state where I spent my summers and late visited often, I is a lovely spot, At least you have the memories,
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@Jenaisle (16076)
• Philippines
1h
Yes, I do. I feel happy whenever I remember those wonderful days when life was so simple and uncomplicated.
@jstory07 (145075)
• Roseburg, Oregon
23h
That sounds like a nice place to live.
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@Jenaisle (16076)
• Philippines
22h
It is. Simple nd beautiful
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@wolfgirl569 (120352)
• Marion, Ohio
16h
That is a great way to live
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@Jenaisle (16076)
• Philippines
1h
It was.
@LindaOHio (196825)
• United States
17h
Thank you for sharing your memories with us.
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@Jenaisle (16076)
• Philippines
1h
You're welcome.
@cabuyogty (4117)
• Philippines
13h
Are you living near in Baguio? I think that is cold there. Is the rain came there? This picture looks good.
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@Jenaisle (16076)
• Philippines
1h
This place is at least 14 hours or more away from Baguio. It's in the far-flung mountains of the Cordilleras.
• Shenzhen, China
22h
I like the view in picture,a village was surrounded by plants,the green sight is my favorite.
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@Jenaisle (16076)
• Philippines
1h
Yes, and a snaking river, from up the mountains it looks like the head of a man.
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