I Upset the Mother-in-Law Last Night On The Phone

United States
September 17, 2025 6:04am CST
I didn't mean to. But I needed her to let us take charge of the situation. I didn't say, "Don't you remember?" because obviously she can't. She has a situation where she broke her lease at her old apartment early and they're charging her an early-termination fee. I'm working on getting them to waive that given the circumstances. But she involved her boss/family friend yesterday. And she's getting very upset about the situation because the old apartment has texted her twice with a form letter telling her she owes the money by a certain date, if not paid they may pursue legal action, etc. She's taking it highly personally. So I said, "MIL, we had this conversation that I was going to take care of it for you and I've asked you to not involve a lot of different people but to run everything through hubby" She flew off the handle. "I can't remember!!! I've got a lot on my mind!!!" I didn't mean to upset her and I told her that I wasn't trying to fuss at her but I needed her to understand that we were helping her. This situation is not fun.
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@LindaOHio (200897)
• United States
8h
I'm sorry she got upset. You are doing all you can to help her.
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@RebeccasFarm (96043)
• Arvada, Colorado
6h
No fun at all and dealing with apartment complexes..they are the worst. Don't I know it.
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@snowy22315 (196151)
• United States
8h
I thunk that is her way of saying she doesn't remember she wasn't supposed to do thatMaybe leave a visual reminder for her next time.
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@RasmaSandra (88983)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
Just now
Your poor MIL. I think she would do very well living with an understanding woman, like in a Lucy and Ethel situation where they both help each other and understand one another.
@porwest (107556)
• United States
7h
I know EXACTLY what you are going through. It's hard not to get upset, ourselves. When you are speaking in plain language, and it's not being understood, or you have discussions that go forgotten, it can be REALLY frustrating and hard to hold back, even when you know full well the person can't help what's happening.
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