My New Books Have Arrived

United States
September 19, 2025 5:34am CST
My therapist mentioned two books to me during our last two sessions, so I ordered them on Amazon. I was going to just see if I could borrow the e-book from the local library, but I sprung for buying the books. One is about "letting go" of control and trying to change people and just "let them" be them, even if they're buttholes. The other one is about mindfulness. I don't understand what mindfulness is so hopefully the book will explain it to me.
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@xFiacre (14358)
• Ireland
14h
@looeyville The fact that you know you need to let go of trying to fix people and let them be “them” surely precludes your need of a bookI would have thought! But I hope the book helps.
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• United States
14h
Yeah, well, maybe a little perspective and reinforcement couldn't hurt, right?
@xFiacre (14358)
• Ireland
14h
@LooeyVille It’s a great relief when you realise you can’t live other people’s lives for them and you stop trying, even if they’re making a dog’s dinner out of their lives.
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@FourWalls (78804)
• United States
8h
Mindfulness is great. You focus on your breath, and when your mind starts wandering instead of berating yourself for letting your mind wander, you acknowledge it and refocus. I like the premise of that other book. That’s one of the reasons I don’t let things bother me: as Rick Nelson once sang, “You can’t please everyone so you’ve got to please yourself.”
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@AmbiePam (103125)
• United States
11h
Have you ever read any books by Anne Graham Lotz? I always recommend her book, “Why”, even to a counselor I had like 12 years ago. Just if you have time to read it. She’s an excellent Christian author (Billy Graham’s daughter).
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• United States
10h
Hope those books are helpful. I've heard of the Let Them book but not the other one
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@Nakitakona (58423)
• Philippines
13h
That's good your two books have arrived. I know how happy you are in receiving them. Happy reading them and enjoy.
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