HELP!!!!!

@zahir_dk (1693)
India
September 15, 2006 5:58am CST
i have a friend. i know she likes me & i also like her but she is not at all goodlookin. But she is intelligent what shd i do ?
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147 responses
• India
16 Sep 06
I think u love her, but u r restriciting ur self towards outlook appearence. When we spend some time with someone and feel that ur cant live wihtout her, then its eventually love . Love is important than beauty.
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• India
15 Sep 06
Hey looks are superfacial ,if you like your friend and she also likes u,,what's the prob? Go ahead.
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@spaceboy (84)
• Ireland
3 Oct 06
so did you do any thing about it...... how did things work out its been 4weeks, you cant just leave us hanging we need to know
• Ireland
4 Oct 06
no no. i just want to know if i helped in any way..... ok it gossip... i bet you'd like to know.
@SunnyDays (1070)
• Bahamas
15 Sep 06
I agree with Druscilla ...Give yourself time to find out how deep your feelings are for her and just remember looks will fade
@dhee4u (2)
• India
16 Sep 06
MY PERSONAL OPINION IS LOVE IS NOT I LOOKS.IF YOU SAY YOU PREFER LOOKS, THEN THAT MEANS ITS NOT LOVE BUT LUST. EYES ARE ATTRACTED BY A PERSON'S LOOKS BUT LOVE COMES FROM HEART AND DEEP IN HEART EVERYTHING IS BEAUTIFUL...MY PERSONAL OPINION IS THAT YOU SHOULD GIVE IMPORTANCE TO WHETHER SHE UNDERSTANDS YOU AND CAN HELP YOU...
@kataztrophy (1836)
• United States
3 Oct 06
You should grow up and stop basing relationships off looks. If you enjoy being around the person, appearence shouldnt really matter unless your shallow. If you are shallow you should just get over yourself.
@imani1 (40)
• United States
4 Oct 06
I Agree!!
• United States
17 Sep 06
If you like her, then you are already attracted to her. It is silly to think that beauty is only on the outside. If you look at her and you get the bubbly feelings inside then you like her. What she looks like is only the opinion of one person that is carried on. She could be unattractive in one person's eyes, but beautiful to someone else's. It is all about the big picture, not the little one. If you want to go just off of looks then don't waste the time in potentially hurting someone's feelings, but if you are truly attracted to her because of her personality then the rest will certainly follow. Don't pass up on something that could potentially be great for both of you, but don't lead yourself or her on just because you think you may like her. Don't listen to anyone else, and don't worry about what anyone else thinks. You make your life happy or superficial. Both have good and bad depending on how you look at life. Good luck in your decision.
• China
21 Aug 09
i love her too,and wish her a fast recovery!
@Kayde311 (237)
• United States
26 Nov 06
Why are looks so important to you? you know that beauty can fade..., you can fix beauty, and looks, you cant fix stupid people.
@vincent72 (1633)
• Australia
26 Nov 06
Looks arent everything zahir_dk, if you both like ..like each other on a intimate level then beauty isnt skin deep its beauty witin, much more impotortant and personally brains are betetr than beauty , superficiality is over rated, you can usually tell ifshe feels the same way by her body langauge too m8, and most of be confident. :) wish you luck zahir_dk ..peace
@krysy1982 (1041)
• United States
26 Nov 06
if yrou like her go for it
• United States
26 Nov 06
well looks are not everything its whats inside that counts if you like her like a girlfriend then go for it looks should not matter
@meljessxena (2315)
• Australia
26 Nov 06
dont worry bout looks, go for it....
• United States
27 Nov 06
I feel that physical attraction is important. But I also see and know that once you get to know someone better his or her inner attributes can make their outer attributes look better. It has been a while since you posted this so I am wondering what happened to you and your friend.
@Ammudoll (549)
• India
22 Aug 09
when you like her then what's wrong just go ahead and start a new relation. There is no need to get confused when this question raised in your mind then it is love for sure. you ar eloving her that's why you are thinking about her looks and outer appearance, as a friend you like her and you didn't bother about looks during friendship. Now you are thinking about looks that means you ar eloivng her and thinking to start a new relationship in between you. Though she is not beautiful she is smart at knowledge as per your words. just think about it
@exodamus (1625)
• India
23 Oct 06
What is the confusion? when you say she is friend she is a friend. No doubt about it. Now you want to love her or not is your question Now if she loves you the best thing would be to stick to her.Because it is more important to have a person who loves you rather thanwhom you only love.Think logically. all the best
• United States
23 Oct 06
Looks arnt everything, someone can be ugly as long as there personality is good thats all that matters
• India
21 Nov 06
Find a good looking girl who is not intelligent. Intelligent women can be a real pain in the a.........
@padhukr (2267)
• India
26 Nov 06
what help you want
@rohit89 (1967)
• India
21 Nov 06
looks are deceptive... looks are not at all life long partners........
@yourpress (307)
• United States
22 Nov 06
post her photo