How do you feel?

September 30, 2025 3:00am CST
When there is a person who continuously harps on how unhappy she is with her marriage (cheating husband), her son focusing more on shares and stocks losing lakhs instead of studies and there is a dog which she fails to love? Instead of reflecting on how she has never been a doting wife, leaving all the kitchen work to her husband (he's an excellent cook), she keeps complaining. Recently she lost her job, as she had to appear for her exams (required) because she got a panic attack as she had not studied and the school, where she works, didn't give her a holiday on the day of her exam. Though she had been helped with her notes, as correction work, ailing father, travel etc took a lot of her time, she failed to study and resorted to ChatGpt at the last moment. All the time spent on her, the hours she was advised and helped, the ink, the pages, were a waste. If and only if she had the sense to not prioritize web series over studies, she wouldn't have suffered her loss. But even when pointed out, she changes the topic, as she feels the weight of the hard work she is required to do. But what about the one with whom she's studying? One who doesn't have a job either, for over more than two years, one who keeps self-motivating herself, burns the midnight oil so she could be prepared for her exams? One who lost her parents, especially her mother whom she lost recently and was extremely close to, one who was almost given in to self-harm out of severe despair, one who's struggling with oneself, battling with all negativity? People are sometimes so insensitive. Not all, not the educated ones, the compassionate ones.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
30 Sep
Some people are too selfish to think about anyone else. Their thoughts revolve round them.
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30 Sep
They aren't matured enough to be receptive to or look at things from others' perspective.