APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE (@mytunemagic) on myLot

APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE @mytunemagic (257) 12 Feb

I had a tremendous urge to write something over here, the other day. But the site didn't open. I wondered and then worried about the internet fiction doing the rounds. Switched on to swap roles to rest my restless mind. The other...

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clrumfelt @clrumfelt (5597) • Tennessee Ridge, Tennessee 26 Jan

I've missed all my MyLot buds for many months now. I had total knee replacement on my right knee last August, and the past few months have been all about pain management and becoming able to do things for myself again. I am nearly...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Nice way of dealing with pain.

12 Feb

Krystal Johnson @Hazeleyesx (29) • United States 6 Jan

It's been 7 years. And I have not found myself where I want to be. I'm okay just not better from my point of view. I came on here looking for solutions or inspiration and left it so suddenly. I'm now back and want to fill in the...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Probably if you'd not left suddenly you'd have had your achievements of 7 years sharing here. But yes, there are glitches and I have also been in and out of MyLot.

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Laura @Laurakemunto (13757) • Kenya 7 Jan

Had a guy in my work place after a meeting he followed me and asked for my number. He was with a colleague of his. I asked why he said he'll tell me. Now the guy texted , asked for a relationship which I was open to it and said...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE I feel you shouldn't have said 'yes', not knowing about him completely, in the first place. He might have lost interest because you complied. It's like, the pattern is from apprenticeship one works to develop friendship and if both feel they are comfortable in...

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emptychair @innertalks (23525) • Australia 19 Jan

The old Zen master had died, and he went up to Heaven, where the doorkeeper there, gave him a koan to solve, before he could get in. The doorkeeper said to him, "You solved many an Earthly koan while alive, but can you...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Only those who have in them the bit of God that says 'you and I are One' are let in. God is not separate from any one....when this realization will dawn, earth will turn into heaven.

24 Jan

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Heather Echola @GardenGerty (167688) • United States 13 Jan

I did go to the viewing at the funeral home today. For those not from the US, that is often a custom. You visit the family and see memories of the person who has died. Often they are in their casket to be seen. I was not going to...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE When he passed away, this boy was only 14. The elder of the two, he was a darling not only to his mother but also to his friends, teachers and all those who knew him. He had multiple tumors in his brain that formed after he was diagnosed with one and was...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE @mytunemagic (257) 19 Jan

This rat was, is, and has been a regular visitor. We were getting tired, irritated, exhausted with its antics. So much damage it has done. My sister placed two or three 'Rat Kill' boards/books like structures, in anticipation of...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE @mytunemagic (257) 11 Jan

The programme scheduled sometime last December was postponed. The day is usually fixed on that date every year. People were told that they'll be informed in January as the chief guest has other appointments elsewhere. Now, it...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Yes..was trying to...Good news is, their plan failed.

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE @mytunemagic (257) 11 Jan

The garden being decked up in its winter costume, a couple was seen standing at the gate. I invited them to step in. The lady turned out to be a homeopathy doctor and was full of praises about our gardener. That was refreshing....

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE @mytunemagic (257) 11 Jan

The programme scheduled sometime last December was postponed. The day is usually fixed on that date every year. People were told that they'll be informed in January as the chief guest has other appointments elsewhere. Now, it...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE @mytunemagic (257) 9 Jan

A flower in itself, it's colours lend dignity to it. The photo with the blurred background makes the colours look more vibrant. The past should be blurred to lend colour to the present. Of the many colours, yellow, orange,...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Thank you

10 Jan

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE @mytunemagic (257) 9 Jan

A flower in itself, it's colours lend dignity to it. The photo with the blurred background makes the colours look more vibrant. The past should be blurred to lend colour to the present. Of the many colours, yellow, orange,...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE @mytunemagic (257) 6 Jan

A few days back someone posted on a social networking platform a question 'How to keep calm when someone disrespects you?' The question is not ordinary. Neither it is out of life's syllabus. And a burning one. Keeping one's calm...

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Dr Souvik Chatterji @sathviksouvik (22373) 4 Jan

Panchet Dam is a good dam built on river Damodar. Damodar Valley Corporation built the dam. The turbulent water of river Damodar during monsoon is stopped by the gates of the dam. The dam waters are used for cultivation of crops...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE Panchet is quiet while Mython has a lot of activity...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE @mytunemagic (257) 3 Jan

The road looks sad. No, not metaphorically. There's this road getting cemented and the sun is refusing to shine. Everytime I look at the road, I feel sad. It cannot get dried. The water stays and it remains wet. They've blocked...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE They have taken measures to keep the other outlets blocked but that's causing hindrance for everyone to carry on their daily work...sacrifices are being made. People are taking different routes on finding the road blocked. My sister walked almost 7km today to...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE @mytunemagic (257) 3 Jan

The road looks sad. No, not metaphorically. There's this road getting cemented and the sun is refusing to shine. Everytime I look at the road, I feel sad. It cannot get dried. The water stays and it remains wet. They've blocked...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE As the other outlets are closed, one gentleman, a neighbor deliberately made way through a side, with his scooter. Though he was warned, he flaunted his vehicle making it easy for others to venture on his footsteps.

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE @mytunemagic (257) 3 Jan

The road looks sad. No, not metaphorically. There's this road getting cemented and the sun is refusing to shine. Everytime I look at the road, I feel sad. It cannot get dried. The water stays and it remains wet. They've blocked...

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Anish Asokan @RevivedWarrior (3855) • India 19 Feb

I had a very bad day! Morning, I find my laptop battery has issues and need to be replaced! Already battling a financial crunch, I am not sure how long I can delay the fix. I lost $100 while trying to buy an app. The app did not...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE When everything goes bad there's something happening outside the direct experience...So yes, it's better to pause, reflect accept, with the thought that that time flies and change will take place.

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Anish Asokan @RevivedWarrior (3855) • India 22 Feb

I have a friend who ensures that anything is damaged, he would have it fixed at earliest. He does not rest till the broken item is back to normal or replaced. One of my neighbours on the other hand has been quite the opposite, he...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE I believe in A stitch in time saves nine... It will be different with different people...those who are retired for example, will take more time, just to keep themselves engaged.

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Anish Asokan @RevivedWarrior (3855) • India 25 Feb

We often have heard tales of people succeeding in spite of odds. In every sphere of life, we meet people and some of them have good mental resilience. Their ability to cope with challenges and bounce back from things has always...

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APARAJITA BHATTACHARJEE For some it is innate, yes. Otherwise experiences are the greatest teachers.

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