What to do next? / myLot

Philippines

October 8, 2025 3:55am CST

Ever wondered what to do next? Feels like hanging... don't know what to do. Didn't have the motivation to move forward. Have you ever been in this situation? What do you usually do to stay motivated and go forward? First steps really is hard...

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Jordan Lader

@JordanLader (6547)

• Sparta, Tennessee

I have that problem on occasion. When I don't have a to do list or my depression kicks my butt and I just don't want to do anything. Sometimes I give in and just wait it out and other times I have to dig deep to find the motivation to keep going. To me it's finding the reason to get it done. I have the sad reality of my work never really being done and even when my grandmother passes, it'll be one foot in front of the other to get things done with the house.

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annavi23

@annavi23 (6566)

• Philippines

Finding the reason to get it done, nice advice you got there. Thank you for that. Maybe sometimes it's just that there will will be times that we have to wait it out, and soon hope that everything will be fine and we can move forward.

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Jordan Lader

@JordanLader (6547)

• Sparta, Tennessee

@annavi23 Sometimes that's all it takes. I don't recommend that all the time but sometimes.

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annavi23

@annavi23 (6566)

• Philippines

@JordanLader yeah, will keep that in mind.

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rakski

@rakski (148988)

• Philippines

I pray. I listen to good music that will lift up my mood

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annavi23

@annavi23 (6566)

• Philippines

That's nice. Thanks for the reminder. Praying and music really is a great help.

cterine9991985

@cabuyogty (4445)

• Philippines

I use to pray whenever I'm so sad and frustrated , read motivational and inspirational quotes online. Always think positive so that I can get over with that feeling and seek other people help like chatting here in mylot.