Win the lottery but lose your partner?

Northampton, England
November 7, 2025 5:10pm CST
You often see fat old rich guys with younger attractive wives but you rarely see short fat, ugly rich women with tall younger and attractive men. Men are not that bothered about a woman's income but more into the body and looks where as women prefer older, educated and financially comfortable men. Only 5 % of all hetrosexual couples are the women taller than the guy. The rules are clear and more negatives than positives when pairing up these days. Now, somewhat interestingly, when married men win big on the lottery ( 7 figures...) they are more likely to stay in that relationship than married men that dont win the lottery do at the same point in longevity in their marriage. I was amazed at that stat, considering the above facts around money and you partners looks. You would think they would try and upgrade the misses with their new found wealth. When married women win big on the lottery it's a very different story, a much higher divorce rate within married couples. Two years after most marriages are done. It seems to be the case big lottery winners struggle to handle their new lives of leisure. You have more choices in life. Are women that superficial you may ask or do they simply prefer to come out of a 'take any guy relationship as you dont want to be lonely', and when they do win big then they dont need to keep suffering that, right? It's still the case that 25 of the top 30 women on the world's richest list are divorce enjoying inherited wealth.
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@celticeagle (181520)
• Boise, Idaho
15h
Marriage is such a farce. What the big deal is I don't know. I think women should be happy and they really don't need men to be that way. Especially if they have some money. Interesting stats.
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• Northampton, England
15h
As women have become more emancipated and financially independent we have actually seen an increase of women marrying into wealth.
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@Shiva49 (27583)
• Singapore
46s
Lack of money is a dampener for marriages. Too much of it has its own problems. My friend used to say to not over insure to avoid people to consider whether they are better off without us!
@marguicha (229066)
• Chile
14h
Marriage is a weird thing and in some cases very outdated. The relationship between husband and wife was totallt different a century ago when women had to stay at home minding hubbies and children.. So while money has some importance, it is not all of it.
@crossbones27 (51561)
• Mojave, California
14h
To be fair I have known so many people to marry just to be more financially stable. I have also seen one of friends divorce his wife because she was sending money home to her family and they American for the record. This guy told me he had his retirement planned out. I will be a millionaire in 10 more years as he finally makes over 100,000 a year and I am going to be set for retirement, so it was not really a surprise when I heard that. It goes both ways.
@Soobinah (196)
14h
In this modern day, women don't just settle. We settle if we think the man we're marrying is ready for bigger responsibilities. Also, women nowadays don't just rely on their partners because they too can provide. If a woman truly loves a man, she'll stay no matter what, even if he doesn't have money.
14h
Yeah, kinda wild but not surprising. Money doesn’t really change people — it just turns the volume up on who they already were.