Closing the Drama for re: my wife's labor case

@rsa101 (40539)
Philippines
December 9, 2025 12:20am CST
A couple of months ago, I shared the experience my wife had with her employer. She resigned after nearly two months due to an unbearable workplace, where she was harassed and given unreasonable workloads to make her seem inefficient. I advised her to comply during the 30-day resignation notice period. On her last day, her employer tried to pressure her into admitting she was inept at her job and forced her to work longer because of it. At that point, I stepped in, pointing out they were holding her against her will, which was illegal since her notice period had already ended. They let her leave but threatened legal action and attempted to withhold her final pay. We left peacefully, but the intimidation continued with threatening emails and even couriered letters demanding a response, which we ignored, waiting to see if they would pursue it legally — nothing came of it. Thirty days later, they informed us her final pay was ready for pickup but again insisted she sign a quitclaim detailing the events of her last day. We refused, as it was unrelated to her pay, though we agreed we’d sign if it was a standard version. Eventually, they gave in and released her final pay without conditions. That concluded the incident as amicably as possible.
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@jstory07 (146869)
• Roseburg, Oregon
19h
That was a really strange way to handle her quitting.
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@rsa101 (40539)
• Philippines
19h
True, she had a very narcissistic employer. She tried to make it seem like I was there to threaten them, but I felt it was only right to be there to get my wife out, especially since it was her last day at work and they no longer had any hold over her. Her boss was power-tripping, making things difficult for her on her final day. I was simply there to protect her rights, as her 30 days had expired.
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@jstory07 (146869)
• Roseburg, Oregon
19h
@rsa101 You did a good job of protecting her.
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@rsa101 (40539)
• Philippines
18h
@jstory07 True, I felt she was helpless at that moment, and my timing was just right to be there for her. I couldn’t be there before because she was still officially hired, but now that her ties with them have ended, I need to stand up for her.
@JudyEv (366857)
• Rockingham, Australia
18h
Wow, they were really aggressive. You will be very relieved that it's finished with now.
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@rsa101 (40539)
• Philippines
18h
We responded with silence and never engaged with them, and eventually they stopped since they couldn’t get anything from us. Legally, it’s safer for us to remain silent than to confront every attempt at intimidation.
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@rsa101 (40539)
• Philippines
16h
@JudyEv That’s true. I’ll admit it was tempting to respond to their accusations, but we chose to be patient since we’re legally in the right, and engaging with them would only flip the narrative in their favor. When they couldn’t get anything from us, it made them question if they had anything to hold against us. We simply starved them with silence.
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@JudyEv (366857)
• Rockingham, Australia
17h
@rsa101 I can believe that. If you say nothing, there isn't much they can do.
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@Dreamerby (9640)
• Calcutta, India
14h
A toxic workplace is a bane. I hope everyone gets a good work environment at work.
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@rsa101 (40539)
• Philippines
1h
True and it was an eye opener for us that toxic employers are a reality out there.