I gave up on a friendship because of my dog
By Diana
@dya80dya (36805)
December 30, 2025 5:11am CST
My dog is 12 years old. He got sick. He is considered a senior dog. He is quite heavy, and I asked my friend to take him to the vet if he wants. My friend, who said he loved me, said that no one would help me. He started to blame me, saying that my dog got sick because of me. My dog is an outdoor dog, and he only lives outside. My dog cried and seemed in severe pain. After asking for help from family, friends, and neighbors, I had to ask strangers if they could help me. All the people I asked refused and said they can't help me. And strangers helped me. I couldn't believe this. I thought the dog had cancer, but fortunately, he has only prostate problems. The vet saw him and gave us medication for him. I noticed that I have no real friends, and when I need help, strangers help me. I even sent my friend a picture of my dog. He is small and not dangerous. And I was going to use a muzzle. No one was bitten. I wonder if I overreacted or if I had a reason to give up on this friendship.
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@RevivedWarrior (3838)
• India
30 Dec
I do not think you overreacted. You were responding to a real emergency involving a living being you love. And the way you acted is all natural. Your dog was in visible pain, and asking for help in that moment was completely reasonable and responsible. A friend who truly cares would show concern, even if they couldn’t physically help, rather than blaming or abandoning you. Blaming you while your dog was suffering shows a lack of empathy, not a reflection of your character. The fact that strangers stepped in when people close to you refused is painful, but it also shows that kindness still exists. It’s understandable that this experience made you reevaluate who you can truly rely on. Many of us has undergone such experiences. Sending the photo and explaining the precautions you were taking shows you were thoughtful and considerate. Friendships are tested during difficult moments, and this one failed when you needed compassion most. Letting go of a relationship that brings judgment instead of support is not an overreaction—it’s self-respect. Do not fret too much on that champ!
