Are Your English Skills Balanced?

@annierose (21963)
United States
January 26, 2026 1:26pm CST
Hi everyone! I’ve been thinking about how we learn English. Some people find reading and listening easier than speaking and writing, or the other way around. I’m curious about your experience. Are your reading and listening skills at the same level as your speaking and writing? Which skills do you find easiest and which are the most challenging?
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@Tina2026 (59)
• London, England
26 Jan
I am good at writing. I have good conversational skills too.
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@annierose (21963)
• United States
4 Feb
That’s great! Strong writing and good conversational skills are a really solid combo. Sounds like you’ve found a nice balance between the two.
@kaylachan (86925)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
27 Jan
I'm a native English speaker being Us born and raised. As a blind person, I deffently learn best through sound. But, I was raised in North florida and have not-so-thick suthern acent, but a well enough defined one, someone asked me if I was from Georgia. How I talk and how I type are two different things. And, because of my native suthern twang I can be hard to understand.
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@annierose (21963)
• United States
4 Feb
Thanks for sharing that, Kayla. Since you learn best through sound, it makes total sense how you approach English. Accents are such a natural part of language, even if they can sometimes make communication tricky. I visited Georgia last month, and honestly, I had a hard time understanding my sister-in-law’s husband. Aside from speaking fast, he also has a different accent compared to the English I usually hear from people in Vegas.
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@annierose (21963)
• United States
4 Feb
@kaylachan That’s really interesting! It’s funny how we don’t always notice our own accents until someone else points them out. Accents really do stay with us.
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@kaylachan (86925)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Feb
@annierose I can understand that. I didn't realize I still had my suthern acient until someone asked me if I was from Georgia. I've been once, but I've never lived there.
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@toniganzon (82806)
• Philippines
27 Jan
I believe I don't have a problem in all those when it comes to the English language. I'm currently learning French on my own and I find speaking a bit difficult because of the pronunciation.
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@annierose (21963)
• United States
4 Feb
That’s impressive that you feel comfortable with all the English skills. And yes, pronunciation can be so tricky. I remember that was one of the reasons I stopped learning Mandarin Chinese. You’re definitely not alone, especially when you’re learning on your own.
@toniganzon (82806)
• Philippines
4 Feb
@annierose The problem with learning Mandarin is that it's tonal. So it's not just the pronunciation but the tone which changes the meaning of your word or sentence as your tone changes. Not the same with French. That's why I never learned Thai language because like Mandarin, it's tonal.
@RasmaSandra (102206)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Jan
Growing up I was learning two languages English and Latvian,
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@annierose (21963)
• United States
4 Feb
Growing up with two languages is such an advantage. That kind of background really shapes how we understand and use language, even later in life.
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@DianneN (254327)
• United States
26 Jan
I’m the worst with foreign languages. Of course, English is my native language, so no problem there. My French is pathetic. I can read it, speak very little, understand very little, and write very little.
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@annierose (21963)
• United States
4 Feb
Reading a language is often much easier than speaking or writing it. French can be intimidating, so you’re definitely not alone in that struggle.
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@DianneN (254327)
• United States
4 Feb
@annierose Thanks for understanding. Learning languages is a gift.
@valherma00 (6190)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
31 Jan
i still feel comfortable seeing english subtitles even though the movie is in english.
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@annierose (21963)
• United States
4 Feb
That makes total sense! Subtitles can be such a comfort, even when you understand the language. I also turn on subtitles even when I am watching an American movie. I think a lot of us use them as a backup—especially when accents or fast dialogue pop up.
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• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
7 Feb
@annierose it really helps, i agree cause, yes, accents and not so clear talks, they confuse us. i mean us, non.native english speakers
@AmbiePam (132839)
• United States
26 Jan
I feel like my English, because I was born and raised in the United States, is very good. I do know my use of a comma and semi colon is often messed up. Or, like with my last line, I ended my sentence with a preposition (up). You’re not supposed to do that, but I did it anyway. Sometimes I care more about convenience than being correct.
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@annierose (21963)
• United States
4 Feb
I love your honesty. And honestly, convenience over perfection is very relatable. Language is about communication first, rules second.
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• Philippines
13 May
I think no, and I feel like I am getting worst with my grammar everyday.
@sol_cee (39092)
• Philippines
26 Jan
Reading is definitely my strongest skill Listening, speaking, and writing? Let’s just say they’re still a work in progress
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@annierose (21963)
• United States
4 Feb
Reading being your strongest skill is a great foundation! The others usually catch up with time and practice, so “work in progress” sounds exactly right.