Valentina (@valherma00) on myLot

Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 13 Jan

I had a job interview yesterday at this one school, for a teaching job and the person said they will call me for sure today. Hours passed, nothing. I sent an email at 2.30 p.m., saying i have other job offer but i want to work...

some schools

as employers

mean and rude

ah

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Valentina thanks. it's just, i used their words. they said they will call me for sure today, after the talk with other school. this job position is working at 2 schools and they made me believe they are interested in me. if they just said, we will let you know, without...

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Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 13 Jan

I had a job interview yesterday at this one school, for a teaching job and the person said they will call me for sure today. Hours passed, nothing. I sent an email at 2.30 p.m., saying i have other job offer but i want to work...

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Valentina i hope you're not looking down on me or patronizing me, from your first sentence i've been around so it's not that new to me as well but one big part of me wanted to believe that it was different this time. maybe their use of some words or their...

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Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 12 Jan

Like, in crucial situations. With your bullying or when you revealed that later and got no real comfort. With your body issues, when she was mad at you, instead of supporting you. When you looked sad or felt sad but she was...

trying to reconnect

it is not working

not being there for you

not being there when you desperately need that

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Valentina @kaylachan i asked her many times to step in after some situations were uncomfortable for me but she said sorry and continued with her old behaviour. i feel no situation can solve on its own. our relationship is not steady for years. i feel it's comfortable...

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Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 12 Jan

Like, in crucial situations. With your bullying or when you revealed that later and got no real comfort. With your body issues, when she was mad at you, instead of supporting you. When you looked sad or felt sad but she was...

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Valentina @LadyDuck i'll try to forget. i was more or less good last 4months, spent holidays alone, survived them, actually.

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Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 12 Jan

Like, in crucial situations. With your bullying or when you revealed that later and got no real comfort. With your body issues, when she was mad at you, instead of supporting you. When you looked sad or felt sad but she was...

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Valentina it's been on and off for years, this kind of communication and she doesn't express a will to change or adapt.last night, after i wrote a message that i am not sure how can i communicate with someone i can't trust, she sent me today a photo of her cat, not...

13 Jan

Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 13 Jan

I had a job interview yesterday at this one school, for a teaching job and the person said they will call me for sure today. Hours passed, nothing. I sent an email at 2.30 p.m., saying i have other job offer but i want to work...

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Valentina @velvet53 thank you. i agree.

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Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 13 Jan

I had a job interview yesterday at this one school, for a teaching job and the person said they will call me for sure today. Hours passed, nothing. I sent an email at 2.30 p.m., saying i have other job offer but i want to work...

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Valentina @just4him thank you.

13 Jan

Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 13 Jan

I had a job interview yesterday at this one school, for a teaching job and the person said they will call me for sure today. Hours passed, nothing. I sent an email at 2.30 p.m., saying i have other job offer but i want to work...

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Valentina Because of this kind of people, i didn't get a chance to teach and felt terrible. you are right, they have no idea what honesty or ethics is but karma will get them, it must. thank you. it's a late interview than usual, 4:15 p.m. but i hope they will treat me...

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Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 10 Jan

First, i contacted my bank cause there was some missing data from my mobile banking app. I even took a screenshot. No apologies, they will check. Then they forwarded the issue and asked me is it good now. I only received thank you...

customer service

via email

regretting to contact them every time

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Valentina @just4him i asked for them to send me the old form, if i filled it out before but i doubt they will. you are right, it's good and maybe safe. thank you

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Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 13 Jan

I had a job interview yesterday at this one school, for a teaching job and the person said they will call me for sure today. Hours passed, nothing. I sent an email at 2.30 p.m., saying i have other job offer but i want to work...

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Valentina thank you. i thought they won't answer me at all and when i received an answer at 7.30 p.m., i felt happy but i was served with those ungrateful words. i also hope i will impress this another employer and that i will start working as soon as possible, which i...

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Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 13 Jan

I had a job interview yesterday at this one school, for a teaching job and the person said they will call me for sure today. Hours passed, nothing. I sent an email at 2.30 p.m., saying i have other job offer but i want to work...

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Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 10 Jan

First, i contacted my bank cause there was some missing data from my mobile banking app. I even took a screenshot. No apologies, they will check. Then they forwarded the issue and asked me is it good now. I only received thank you...

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Valentina @LadyDuck if you say soeven if they are faking it, it's a good feeling when they are well behaved being a small country does have some advantages do you miss not living there, if i may ask?

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Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 13 Jan

Dear heavens. A female in her late 20s,early 30s, with pumped up lips stepped from the line to look at the sunglasses and then she came back and stood by me. I said to her, excuse me but you exited the line. She didn't even looked...

uncomfortable situation

cutting the line

todays world

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Valentina Thank you.i am glad i stood my ground.on the other hand,store staff could step in and help out.here, they pretend like that doesn't concern them. Also, some people are dangerous and i am lucky, i think.

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Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 13 Jan

Dear heavens. A female in her late 20s,early 30s, with pumped up lips stepped from the line to look at the sunglasses and then she came back and stood by me. I said to her, excuse me but you exited the line. She didn't even looked...

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Valentina I wish the cashier or staff stepped in. They mostly act like they didn't see what is happening around them.thank you for your care.i'm also realising now she could have attacked me. Next time, i'll let her go first, i think.thanks again.

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Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 12 Jan

Like, in crucial situations. With your bullying or when you revealed that later and got no real comfort. With your body issues, when she was mad at you, instead of supporting you. When you looked sad or felt sad but she was...

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Valentina @LadyDuck thank you for understanding. i am sad too that he acted like that, when you really were there for him.i hope the feelings you feel will disappear one day or they won't trigger a bad memory anymore.i wrote this post actually about my mother while my...

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Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 13 Jan

Dear heavens. A female in her late 20s,early 30s, with pumped up lips stepped from the line to look at the sunglasses and then she came back and stood by me. I said to her, excuse me but you exited the line. She didn't even looked...

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Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 12 Jan

Like, in crucial situations. With your bullying or when you revealed that later and got no real comfort. With your body issues, when she was mad at you, instead of supporting you. When you looked sad or felt sad but she was...

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Valentina I agree that it's bullying and there is no trust.It is sad how in the day, a woman just wanted to settle down, found a man who didn't love her enough and then she got kids and every emotion she didn't get from husband or a respect, she emotionally threw at the...

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Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 12 Jan

Like, in crucial situations. With your bullying or when you revealed that later and got no real comfort. With your body issues, when she was mad at you, instead of supporting you. When you looked sad or felt sad but she was...

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Valentina I don't know what came to me.i was having a good day, maybe wanted to check if things changed and after a couple of messages we exchanged, feelings of feeling sick and uncomfortable emerged and words in my mind that is too late.it is kind of hard making new...

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Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 12 Jan

Like, in crucial situations. With your bullying or when you revealed that later and got no real comfort. With your body issues, when she was mad at you, instead of supporting you. When you looked sad or felt sad but she was...

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Valentina Same patterns are repeating and it makes you feel very uncomfortable. Caring from the distance might be the best.thank you.

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Valentina @valherma00 (407) • Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska) 12 Jan

Like, in crucial situations. With your bullying or when you revealed that later and got no real comfort. With your body issues, when she was mad at you, instead of supporting you. When you looked sad or felt sad but she was...

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Valentina When you got depressed sentence doesn't mean that person still suffers from depression or that was ever the case;do you suffer or have experience concerning that, if i may ask? I wonder, what is wrong for just once speaking up for the person, if you've done...

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