How Real Life Disappeared Behind the Screen

United States
February 5, 2026 4:12pm CST
Lately I’ve been thinking about how disconnected everything feels, not just people from each other, but from reality itself. Everyone online acts like they’ve got money, energy, options, and endless time, but that’s not how life actually looks for a lot of us. I don’t go anywhere, I don’t spend money, and most days are spent sitting in the same place, watching the same screens, listening to people argue about things that won’t change a damn thing in their own lives. The internet pretends this is normal, but it isn’t. It’s just loud. What really gets me is how confident people are about things they barely understand. They repeat lines, narratives, and slogans like they’re facts, and if you question it, suddenly you’re the problem. I’ve watched professionals, media people, even academics say things that make no sense if you stop and think for five seconds. But nobody stops. They just keep scrolling, liking, reposting. Thinking has become optional, and honesty feels like a liability. I’m not angry all the time, just tired of pretending this is how things are supposed to be. There’s a big gap between how people talk online and how people actually live, especially when money is tight and your world is small. I guess I’m writing this to see if anyone else feels it too, or if we’re all just quietly sitting on our couches, watching the same circus, wondering when it got so fake.
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@DaddyEvil (167091)
• United States
8h
I tell things like they really are... Maybe you're watching the wrong things or listening to the wrong people? I don't know. I criticize the things trump says and does but not very loudly. There are definitely two people on myLot who think the sun rises and sets in his butthole and aren't worried about how other people think and feel about the things the present government is doing or saying here on myLot. I don't feel like letting them attack me when the management here doesn't do anything when that happens. (There are rules about harassment that are ignored by GAA both a past GAA and the current one.) I'm sorry you feel disconnected. I bury myself in good books and ignore things I can't change.
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• United States
8h
I get lost in books (and movies) but I just never have the energy to even start. Another frustration. But I seem to spend time - no matter how short - on things that make me feel worse - like reading stuff on Twitter.
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@DaddyEvil (167091)
• United States
8h
@PinkFloydFan I am on two sites where I can read the BS happening in the world, myLot and Tangled. (I rarely talk to anyone on Tangled but I do read a lot of their posts and heart the ones I like.) I don't use Twitter even though I have an account there. I also use YouTube but I've been trying to train it to only show me stuff I'm interested in. I don't want anything about trump coming up on my YT feed. Do you like short comedies? I found a new-to-me channel that is cavemen doing funny stuff if you're interested in something like that?