I'm too old!

@Fleura (33913)
United Kingdom
February 12, 2026 12:57am CST
A few months ago a friend – who had retired early and was enjoying sailing around Europe with his wife – suffered a bad bout of pneumonia while in Kalamata, Greece. He was treated in hospital there and recovered and blamed it on a tiring leg of the voyage – but when they came home for Christmas he had further investigations and was diagnosed with leukaemia; specifically, acute lymphoblastic leukaemia (ALL). ALL is quite a rare form of cancer and is more common in young children but can affect anyone. Conventional treatment uses steroids and chemotherapy. He has already had the first round of treatment, involving a six-week stay in hospital, and is due to go back for round two of chemotherapy next week. After that he would be put on a maintenance dose which could go on indefinitely, because the only real cure is a stem cell or bone marrow transplant. After chatting to him on the phone a couple of days ago I looked into registering as a stem cell donor. I am already a long-standing blood donor and stem cells can be extracted from blood so it didn’t seem too big a leap. Obviously the chances of being a match for my friend would be very small indeed but that’s not the point really. Anyway I read all about the process, but then unfortunately when I clicked the ‘check if you are eligible’ link I found I am way too old! Under the NHS Blood and Transplant service donors need to be between 17 and 40 years old. Well I showed willing I suppose. I can still donate blood at least. All rights reserved. © Text copyright Fleur 2026.
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@xFiacre (14212)
• Ireland
11h
@fleura So all those of us who are 40+ can try to sign up confident in the knowledge that we will be turned down and that way we can feel all magnanimous! Oh cynical me.
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@Fleura (33913)
• United Kingdom
7h
Now that you know, then yes I guess so.
@JudyEv (371504)
• Rockingham, Australia
14h
40 sounds a very young cut-off point. At least they'll still take your blood, as you say.
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@Fleura (33913)
• United Kingdom
7h
Yes, although sometimes they do make you feel that they're doing you a favour by taking it
@jstory07 (147427)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16h
I hope your friend will be ok. That is really sad.
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@Fleura (33913)
• United Kingdom
14h
It was a big shock but he is being very upbeat about it all.
@wolfgirl569 (129465)
• Marion, Ohio
8h
That sounds familiar to what a friend of mine has to do. She told me she will be doing chemo treatments every so often the rest of her life. But she is feeling a lot better now.
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@DianneN (248808)
• United States
5h
I’m surprised to hear that 40 is considered too old, but at least you tried and can still donate blood.
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@thelme55 (77634)
• Germany
8h
I hope your friend can receive a donation as soon as possible.
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@LindaOHio (213563)
• United States
9h
God bless you for trying. I am so sorry about your friend. Saying a prayer.
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