Never assume...
By Fleur
@Fleura (34537)
United Kingdom
February 13, 2026 2:16am CST
A recent news story highlighted the dangers of making assumptions.
A nine-month-old baby was taken to the doctors with various rather non-specific symptoms. After a few visits over a period of weeks, the baby’s condition deteriorated, and it was taken to hospital where it sadly died.
At the inquest it was revealed that while the father spoke excellent English (although it wasn’t his first language), the mother spoke none and had only arrived in the UK from Pakistan at 30 weeks pregnant (there were no more details about the family background).
At medical appointments the father accompanied his wife and was very attentive and translated for her. But it is not clear whether he fully understood everything, or whether he translated everything clearly, or whether the doctors were put off asking too many questions because of the communication difficulties, or whether they just made assumptions – probably the latter.
Because they naturally asked whether the baby was breast-fed or bottle-fed. And when they were told ‘bottle’ they probably assumed that meant baby formula, as they would expect, so they didn’t ask what was in the bottle.
This turned out to be a fatal omission. Someone had convinced the mother that her baby would do better on cow’s milk, and apparently this is toxic to human babies (I didn’t know this either) – not only does it contain the wrong form of iron, but it also blocks absorption of iron from other dietary sources.
So the baby died from chronic anaemia. All because the doctors didn’t ask the right question.
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4 responses
@AmbiePam (117608)
• United States
13 Feb
I’ve got to say, who would think to ask do you mean bottle fed with formula most of us use, or the milk from a cow? Wow. Sounds like it was a group failure, especially the person who got her to change what she was giving the baby. That’s just tragic. I imagine each person involved blames themselves.
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@GardenGerty (168552)
• United States
14 Feb
In the late seventies there was a formula that came out that caused cognitive damage to infants. I believe it was missing some mineral that was essential. So formula is not fool proof.
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@Fleura (34537)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb
It's easy to assume that other people think what you think, or know what you know, but that isn't the case.
Foe years I couldn't understand why canned salmon is recommended as a source of calcium - why specifically canned? Why not fresh? Well it turns out that the dietitians who write these leaflets assume everyone eats the bones in canned salmon. However I and everyone I know pick the bones out.
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@Laurakemunto (13787)
• Kenya
13 Feb
Never assume even the obvious is not always the obvious.
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