A man at the country club told us about dating his estranged daughter

February 14, 2026 9:37pm CST
And it was only the next morning he realised Long story short He Had a one night stand with woman when he was in the Army She became with child when he was 18, never saw her again, Him, 35 years old, single, in a dance music club, He Spotted a girl about 21 who seemed familiar, He Danced with her, had a drink or two, took her home, She stayed the night. Next morning, she said she couldn't remember his second name so he told her, She said, that's my dads name, he asked if her mum was " Pamela", yes indeed Woops, she just stood there, dumbstruck, in shock, he was more shocked she was only 17! He found it Hard to believe that was over 30 years ago, 1995 He said he wasn't ashamed as he couldn't undo doing it, Easy mistake to make. Wonder how frequently that happens
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@marguicha (229915)
• Chile
15 Feb
I´m sure that happens a lot.
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15 Feb
A large number of men never seen their kids or don't even know they have kids. So I bet it does happen.
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@LeaPea2417 (39504)
• Toccoa, Georgia
15 Feb
That happens more than we know.
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@LeaPea2417 (39504)
• Toccoa, Georgia
11h
@Ineeddentures I wonder that too.
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@LeaPea2417 Imagine if the man in question made a baby with his estranged daughter
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15 Feb
I bet it does I wonder how many babies are made
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@jstory07 (147479)
• Roseburg, Oregon
2h
I would think it happens more than you know.
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The more I think about it the more and more it seems logical that it happens a lot Judy
@xFiacre (14243)
• Ireland
15 Feb
@ineeddentures Happens unwittingly to a lot of half siblings here. A lot.
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15 Feb
Being honest , I actually slept with my cousin. Only found out the girl was my cousin because of a photo on a living room mantle piece
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@Fleura (33966)
• United Kingdom
18h
@Ineeddentures Cousins are acceptable!
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@Fleura (33966)
• United Kingdom
18h
I was struggling to see how she could be his daughter if she was 21 and he had been 18 at the time. Yes that kind of thing does happen. It is thought that there is some sort of conditioning that means that family members who grow up around each other then do not find themselves attracted to each other, if you see what I mean. But I have read several stories of siblings who fell head-over-heels in love with a half-sibling when they first met because they had so much in common. Family break-ups mean this kind of thing is more likely.
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@Fleura (33966)
• United Kingdom
15h
@Ineeddentures Yes I understood that when I read the whole thing
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@Fleura I was a bit , well, drunk when I posted Thought it maybe was wrong Not the actual man dating his daughter, but the chronology so to speak
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He impregnated the woman whilst he was in the army aged 18 When he met the girl he was 35 years old He thought that she looked about 21 years old but she was in fact 17 years old.
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@JudyEv (371811)
• Rockingham, Australia
2h
What a shock for them both. I'm sure it isn't the first time it's happened and won't be the last.
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Wonder what it feels like knowing you ........
@LindaOHio (213837)
• United States
17h
It's a small, small world.
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It really is a small world Linda