How did you feel when you broke up with someone you just deeply loved?

China
December 3, 2006 2:20am CST
I just broke up with my boyfriend.Sadness is fulfilling my heart.I don't known why making the decision.I just loved him so much that I can't leave him.He is the one loved me best.He's actually an excellent boy and a good boyfriend.I'm an ordinary girl with ill temper.I even don't known why he loved me so much.I feel so sorry about him.Wish him happiness.My world has been pulled down.
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12 responses
• Kenya
3 Dec 06
It's natural to feel lost and all when the break-up is still fresh, sweetie. You are not the the first to feel this way. Is your temper the only reason he broke up with you? Can you seek anger management classes to help you? Do you think he'll consider starting afresh if you'd tone down the temper? People who love you like that are rare and far between. So if you can get it back, I suggest you try...
• Kenya
10 Dec 06
That's good! Don't you see that he actually loves you despite your anger? I think you should think about getting back with him. And honey, love isn't just words, its action as well. He has demonstared his and now it's your turn to demonstrate yours by doing something about what puts him off about you, your anger. C'mon, meet him half way, gal!
• China
11 Dec 06
I think we just fall in love again through our efforts.Thank you guys for your good advices.I will grasp my own happiness.
• China
3 Dec 06
He is trying to get me back.I don't known what to do.I'm helpless.I hope we can have a happying ending.
• India
4 Dec 06
its like one half of ur part has been choped off... its like a totally blank
• China
4 Dec 06
I think so.
@Meljep (1666)
• United States
4 Dec 06
You have completed the first step toward overcoming your anger - admitting you have a problem. Hopefully you can find a support group who will help you find a way to get the temper under control. Wishes for a great future.
• China
4 Dec 06
Thank you.I will.
@Poison_Girl (4150)
• United States
4 Dec 06
I just wanna die. I can't live without him. *sigh*
• China
4 Dec 06
There is no one who can't live without another.But there is someone cannot truly love another person if he or she was hurt in heart.
• China
4 Dec 06
first we certainly feel sad,but that does help heal the sadness from our bottom heart. if you have a turely love toward to somebody.why broke up ,just for some little bawbeee?i can't understand that.
• China
4 Dec 06
Sometimes you just can't tell the reason why you felt that there was something wrong between you two.Maybe someday we will find that we need each other.It was a mistake of breaking up.
• Canada
4 Dec 06
i felt really sad and upset bcz i loved my b/f so much and then one day he broke up with me 4 no reason at all!!!:(:(:(:( but now we r really good friends and were always here 4 each other when evah we need some to talk to or jus someone to tell us thats its gunna be alright !!!!! and dats really good that we both agreeed to be friends but you nevah know mayb one day we will be more then friends like be4!!!!!!!!!!!:):):)
• China
4 Dec 06
May you will get back your true love!Good luck,girl!
• Australia
3 Dec 06
i broke with my ex few weeks ago it just wasnt working and she understood, ive now met someone else who i deeply love and im very happy
• China
3 Dec 06
Thank you for your responsing.Wish you happiness.you make me feel that I'm not alone.
• India
3 Dec 06
same happened with me about 3 weeks ago and even i am not able to get out of it. I loved the girl too much...But maybe time will help us both recover...
• China
3 Dec 06
Try to do something to get her back if you love her too much.good luck.
• United States
3 Dec 06
I would be very sad
• China
4 Dec 06
Same here.
@niz_hash (72)
• India
3 Dec 06
It hurts really bad. You feel sick at heart,dejected and the pain is unbearable and the pangs of separation are impinging. All you do is think about your love all day and night and you just dont feel like eating or sleeping and sometimes you feel as if you've lost everything. Truly I relly feel sorry for you hope you come out this shock soon. I have been through all this but m out of it n the lesson i have learnt is Never ever fall in love with ne 1 cuz it hurts really bad when u lose them.
• China
4 Dec 06
I had the feeling same as yours When I broke up with my first love.I even thought that the world deserted me.All those days were rainy.Like my frame of mind.It took such a long time that he was fade from my memory.But you'll fall in love with the one even you known that you may hurt.
@SACH4ISHA (1163)
• India
3 Dec 06
I JUST CAN'T THINK ABOUT IT. AND FEEL SORRY FOR YOU TO.
• China
3 Dec 06
Thank you very much.you're so kind-hearted.wish you happiness.I'll be fine.
• Singapore
12 Dec 06
Sad of course.But find a new person you will.