Just Sharing My Thoughts

Philippines
May 15, 2026 8:37am CST
I went to the bank this afternoon and headed to the cafe afterwards. While at the cafe, I saw a former friend and classmate with his spouse and kid. All my classmate have their own family now, some have their kids graduated from college. But we still have a few classmates and batchmates who are still single, like me, lol. It's good to bump into an old friend, imagine we went to the same school since kindergarten until high school, that's why none of us had a romantic relationship with each other because we grew up like siblings. Hehehehe. Some married a classmate who transferred to our school during high school. It's hard to get romantically involved with people you grew up with, except if you are really fated to be together forever, do you agree?
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@augusta123 (10081)
15 May
Yeah, I agree it’s hard to get romantically involved with people you grew up with from kindergarten. Familiarity kills the mystery, and most people mentally file you as “family”. But when it does happen, it’s usually because something changed later you see each other as adults, not kids.
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• Philippines
15 May
I also agree with your thoughts, when they are able to see a different side of them as an adult.
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@augusta123 (10081)
16 May
@JudyEv (380041)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 May
I suppose that's true but not always.
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• Philippines
16 May
Yes I agree, especially when two people are fated to be forever together.
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@AmbiePam (119353)
• United States
15 May
I don’t know, I haven’t really thought about it. I certainly don’t know a lot of people who grew up together and then got married. Perhaps, you really do know each other too well.
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• Philippines
16 May
Yeah, coz most of us really grow up in one school. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and opinion. God bless.
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@rakski (154383)
• Philippines
16 May
If that happens, it must be their fated mate for life