My son has changed so much but also stayed the same

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It's crazy to look back at old photos of my son and realize how much he has grown. He went from my tiny (well, not tiny for a baby but tiny in comparison to now), chubby baby to my tall, skinny teenager. You can look at any picture of him and tell it's him. He has changed so much in looks, but he also still looks the same. My son used to talk up our neighbors when we lived in our apartment. They loved it when they saw him come out. They'd get excited and say "Hey, the little biker boy is out" (we used to take him outside to ride his bike). He would chat them up and get them laughing, and they really seemed to enjoy having him out. We had neighbors with kids, but they either stayed inside or were rude. My son was friendly and liked talking to people. He is the reason I learned who any of our neighbors were. He felt the need to talk to them all. If it weren't for him, I probably would have never known who any of our neighbors were. He knew not to go with anyone he didn't know, and wouldn't talk to anyone unless I was nearby, but he'd get excited when he saw someone new to talk to. He went through a phase where he didn't like being talked to (from about 2 to 4), but it was hit or miss depending on his mood. A lot of the time, when he was 3, he did enjoy chatting people up, but he'd get in a mood where he didn't want anyone talking to him. He was a fun kid. My son has always been incredibly polite, even when he was just starting to talk. He has always used please and thank you. I remember he was about two and a half, and we were in the store, and he was helping me push the cart, and a woman was coming up, and he goes, "Oh, excuse me," and she laughed and said, "No, excuse me". She got a kick out of him. My son was around a lot of adults, so he really did have a very large vocabulary, and he knew how to talk to adults. It took him a little longer to figure out how to talk to kids his own age. I used to babysit, so he was around some kids, but not to the degree he should have been. His teachers always seem to love him, and I've been told by teachers that he also gets along well with his peers and is genuinely kind to everyone. Even now, while he is quieter than he used to be, he can be incredibly outgoing. He talks to everyone and is decent at holding a conversation. Most people do genuinely like him. Some people find him a little weird, and he can be, but not in a bad way. He's got his issues, and he struggles sometimes, but he is well liked. He isn't popular, but those who know him like him. A lot of teachers have told me he is like a breath of fresh air. He isn't a toddler anymore, but I can still see some of those qualities in him. Thankfully, the random screaming at people when he didn't feel like talking is no longer something he does lol, but that curious, sweet, funny, kind, imaginative toddler is still in there. His personality has changed a lot over the years, but there are still some similarities to those earlier days in there. The photo is one that makes me laugh and say "aww" now, it's my son's 2-year-old pictures. We have some of him smiling, but this was when he was going through his "I don't like strangers" phase, but his three year old pictures were all smiles. I thought about one of his baby pictures, but the toddler years were probably the pictures I got a lot more different expressions as he was figuring out what he did and didn't like. I do have a baby picture where he touched grass for the first time and had the biggest pout on his face I'll have to find. Man, they grow up so fast. He's 15 and a half now.