Zen story: The stone koan

Let your heart guide you
@innertalks (23780)
Australia
June 28, 2026 8:10pm CST
The Zen master was having trouble coming up with a new koan to test his students with, as he wanted it to be a particularly good one, hard to solve, by anyone. He went outside, and kicked a stone along the path, and then he had it. "Why does a stone allow itself to be kicked around by anyone, is your mind like that too?" He gave his new koan to his students, the next morning, and asked them for a possible answer. One said, "We should not be controlled, nor burned by our minds, but we should be open to life kicking us rightly at times too." Yes, the master replied, "Life will often kick your mind around, but never allow yourself to be prevented from living a rightful life for yourself, too." Photo Credit: The photo used in this article was sourced from the free media site, pixabay.com Don't let your mind kick you around. Let your heart guide you instead.
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@Nakitakona (60183)
• Philippines
29 Jun
That's a good comparison between stone and life. Since you own your life, it's up to you to be mishandled by others unlike the stone is not rational and nonliving and it's scattered around. Anyone could step on it, kick at person's will.
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@innertalks (23780)
• Australia
29 Jun
Yes, we are conscious beings, and we should do our best to live awarely, and not allow life, or others, to push/kick us around, but still, we should listen to life, and to God, to live in the best way we can do so, too.
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@Nakitakona (60183)
• Philippines
29 Jun
@innertalks our conscience won't fail us when we listen to it. Remember we're here to search for happiness.
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@Nakitakona (60183)
• Philippines
30 Jun
@innertalks That's right. God is omnipresent He can be reached everywhere. Just spend a little time for Him to communicate.
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@sol_cee (39034)
• Philippines
4 Jul
A thought-provoking koan. Sometimes our own minds can be our biggest obstacle
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@innertalks (23780)
• Australia
4 Jul
Thanks. Yes, our mind can get in the way, and block us, of our going in the right direction for us.
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@Shiva49 (28477)
• Singapore
29 Jun
The mind can be likened to a monkey swinging from branch to branch in a forest. It is easily influenced by the material world to an extent it suppresses our heart. We become rudderless drifting without direction. We have to rein in the mind from its ceaseless restlessness so that we do not lose our focus that life is more than what this transient material world has to offer.
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@innertalks (23780)
• Australia
29 Jun
Yes, we need discernment to not follow idle and reckless thoughts, as thrown at us by our mind. We should not immediately savour these bones of thought, but let them go actionless, until our heart checks them first to ascertain if they are worthy enough thoughts for us to follow, and action too. We do need to kerb our mind from running us blind, up the wrong garden path for us, and to be better steered by our higher self, and its whispers of right action, always coming into our heart, if we listen to them constantly, awarely.
@Shiva49 (28477)
• Singapore
30 Jun
@innertalks The heart should act not only as a sieve to separate the wheat from chaff, as it were, but also reflect our inner knowing inspired through our unbroken connection to our creator. We take certain paths that can prove irreversible and too late to retract. The world is full of pitfalls, blind turnings, charlatans out to hoodwink us. Our life is akin to a steeplechase race involving water jumps too. No one promised us life here will be fun! I read about someone threatening to sue his parents for giving him life without his consent! Food for thought!
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@innertalks (23780)
• Australia
30 Jun
@Shiva49 I doubt if he won such a frivolous claim, though. And, if the truth be known, it was probably his own soul, working with God, that decided he be born to those parents. Most wrong paths can still be corrected, if we wake up to the fact that we are going wrong, unless an entrenched mind set prevents us from changing. Our inner knowing never stops trying to get its own message through to us, and will use every means at its disposal to do so, but, would never resort to foul means, I would say. If we get sick, and it is a wakeup call for us, so we start to listen to inner guidance, that is good, but it does not mean that the sickness was foist upon us by our higher self, as it is usually a result of our own lifestyle.
@AliCanary (4639)
29 Jun
My heart is just as likely to kick me around...
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@innertalks (23780)
• Australia
29 Jun
Yes, even our body often kicks us around too. We need to be more mindful about what controls us.
@Wrexxo (3248)
29 Jun
I feel you. We should let our heart guide us not kick us around
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@innertalks (23780)
• Australia
29 Jun
Yes, guidance comes into our heart, and our mind, from our higher self, and sometimes from a higher power source too. We should not ignore such gut feelings, but when we allow our mind to fixate on pursuing idle, or attached pursuits, this fixation can block us from hearing the still quiet voice of our soul, or higher self, so we are driven by such desires, away from that indicated to us by love, which should not be a desire either, but remain unconditional, in its efforts, and ways of operating in us.