Why wont people mind their Own Business?

a lonely life - people are just jealous and uncontented of what they have..
Philippines
December 3, 2006 5:19am CST
i have this stalker which i also a girl, who hides her identity and profile and does sends messages that really hurts a lot. like "go and commit suicide, i wish you die" and also all terrible things, she keeps on bugging my personal life and never miss a day not viewing my profile and do some destructive stuffs. they are disordered menace of society who just want war, conflict and quarrels... why cant they see their own selves than seeing others first?
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26 responses
• United States
4 Dec 06
Some people just like doing stuff to bother other people. I hate to admit it but there are sometimes when I have just annoyed someone but that is usually a friend I am playing with. If I don't like someone I don't want to waste my time with them period. But in your case if she really does care and is just obssessed you need to find away to track her. There are some sites like statcounter.com that let you add some code to your page, site, profile, whatever so you can see your viewers isp address. If you can figure out which visitor she is just call her ISP (internet service provider) tell them how she is harrassing you and get her kicked off the internet all together. That might sound harsh but bothering someone like that on the internet is stupid, childing, and just wrong and sometimes people need to be reminded in a big way that they can't just get away with that mess.
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• Philippines
8 Dec 06
thanks, im confident now.. i know there are good people who listen like you guys.. thanks.
• Philippines
8 Dec 06
i make a plus for you..
• Canada
14 Dec 06
Tell her (or write a comment below hers) telling her to put her time and effort into something worthy of the effort. I mean, how pathetic must she be to "stalk" people, especially anonymously, and how much of an impact must you have on her life for her to be so dedicated to harrassing you? Ask her why you have so much power and control over her that she devotes so much time to you. Usually when people realize that they aren't bothering you, but instead are looking foolish for spending so much time thinking about someone they are supposed to "hate", they stop with the stupidity and move on with their lives.
• Philippines
16 Dec 06
thanks a lot.. i gave you a plus.. shes not bothering me now these days..
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
3 Dec 06
Yes it is a pain and I hope you have no personal details in any profiles as I never have as such But do ignore her and don't even read the messages it is not worth it To me these kind of People are sick Ignore her and she will get fed up eventually it might take a bit of time but she will
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• Philippines
8 Dec 06
thank you... im not lonely anymore... coz i have people like you guys... ^_^
@jricbt (1454)
• Brazil
3 Dec 06
First, I would try to discover if this stalker means any risk for you, and I mean risk suffering some injury, or worst. If not, she is as big as you mind her. If you ignore her, she will just be the pathetic , stupid being that she is. She means nothing, has not the personality to be someone, is weak and have to use hate to try to obtain some meaning to her life.
• Philippines
8 Dec 06
thanks true... thank you.
@mbs730 (2147)
• Canada
4 Dec 06
There is jealousy here, being the biggest issue and some people just have nothing better to do. Some people just plain and simply have no lives. I am sorry you are dealing with this. Just try to block her if possible, or if it gets really bad have it traced and charge her.
• Philippines
8 Dec 06
im coping up with my depression now... thank you for the response... thanks you..
@platypus (334)
• Italy
3 Dec 06
don't care of people like that. if she has nothing better to do in her life.... try to report to the webmasters, maybe they can do something to stop this. but carry on with your life. if this stalker notice that you are giving her importance, she will never stop.
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• Philippines
3 Dec 06
mr. bell pepper - green and yummy
true, i replied once asking who she is? and why is she doing this to me then she keeps on bothering me since then with huting messages.. thanks, i will do that...
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• United States
4 Dec 06
This person sounds very sick. You should turn her over to the police.
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• China
19 Dec 06
well said,i agree with you,i hate people like that,i wish that would not happen to me
@cuddiluk (1523)
• Philippines
8 Dec 06
Don't mind this kind of people. Unless she will confront you then thats the time you would show your madliness expression. This nonesense people wanting to covet you is estremely out of their mind.
• Philippines
8 Dec 06
thank you, it helps me a lot not to get down into depression. thanks guys, your always there.
@dhaeo_09 (1007)
• Philippines
3 Dec 06
Just don't be bothered by those ones. They just envy you for some reasons.
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• Philippines
3 Dec 06
dad - dads in the whole world.. responsible and will never leave us.
thanks, i love people helpng me easy away... wheww... hard to see what for they become like criminals.. thanks again..
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@lucy02 (5016)
• United States
4 Dec 06
Is there any way to find out who this person is? I assume she is contacting you through mylot.com. If that's the case report her to mylot. My guess is that you are right. She is just jealous, but you shouldn't have to put up with her.
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@Asimk12 (737)
• Pakistan
18 Dec 06
cuz they want to take risk in their own bussiness..:P
• India
19 Dec 06
we can classify them in two ways one the people wanna develop them selves and other aer ego people jelous of development of the people
• Philippines
19 Dec 06
thanks praveen..
• India
26 Dec 06
much percentage in this world is eaget to know others problems and issues related to others though they do not have any use with them some people will know others situations and enjoy them though they dont need that. everyone is eager of knowing others issues so people dont mind their one bussiness.
@wynna1 (1291)
4 Dec 06
They are just the kind of people who lacks attention and by doing this they think that they'll get the attention that they wanted, but its really up to you if you'll pay attention with it or just ignore it knowing that they dont do any good with you. Anyways, why dont you block her or report her.
• United States
13 Dec 06
I would take all my profile pictures down. Maybe this would help.
@ipanks (890)
• Indonesia
4 Dec 06
dont respond it.let them messages go like the wind blows:))
@ipanks (890)
• Indonesia
4 Dec 06
dont respond it.let them messages go like the wind blows:))
• Philippines
8 Dec 06
that person has nothing to do with his life....
@jesi06 (279)
• United States
18 Dec 06
I would not even respond to her nor comment on her actions. She is probably doing this because she is jealous. The more you allow her to know she is "getting to you" the more she will try to "push your buttons".