An end of a long crappy era.
By April
@thislittlepennyearns (69034)
Defuniak Springs, Florida
July 30, 2026 10:49pm CST
Many of you know that I am bonus mama to two kiddos. Well one of the egg donors we don't have any contact with because she continues to make chocies that make her unsafe to even hold a conversation with the child she birthed.
The other one however has been a thorn in our side. She has multiple times flat out disrespected not only Chris and I, but the children and Chris' mom. It finally came to a point a month or two ago, when she flat out lied about something that I pulled up on the clerk of court website and then went of on her child (he's over eighteen now but still). So he decided he didn't want to talk to her anymore, which is a decision we supported. He is old enough to make those decisions for himself.
Well twice in the last month we have went and got the youngest child (so he child and her share a mother, but not father) and let her come spend time with her brother and she child. I have talked about her before a couple times and referred to her as tiny she child. Well last weekend the egg donor lied to us twice about where she was and what she was doing. She was out drinking when she told me that she was in the ER so we couldn't bring she child back. Then she went off on me.
I decided it was the last time. I am not going to go out of my way to do things for her/tiny she child and then be treated like crap.
So I rounded up every single piece of anything that belonged to tiny she child and will be dropping it off tomorrow. I have no desire to speak to the egg donor. After the way she treated and spoke to me last weekend. It was too far, she's burned the last bridge.
I am glad to be done with her, and her taking advanctage of our kindness. Good riddence.
Thank you for coming to my TED talk.
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@thislittlepennyearns (69034)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
31 Jul
She might have to *gasp* be responsible for herself. They closed her DUI case, and oofta she got some intersting things shes gotta deal with.
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@AmbiePam (123968)
• United States
31 Jul
@thislittlepennyearns I was hoping it would cause her to be responsible, and if she has to follow structure due to that DUI maybe she would. Hopefully, you made her actually think.
@thislittlepennyearns (69034)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
31 Jul
@AmbiePam Ihope so , for tiny she childs sake. It's not her fault her mother is a disaster.
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@MarieCoyle (60917)
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31 Jul
I can understand why you are completely done with her, and why the son wants nothing to do with her, either. She truly did burn all the bridges and took advantage of all of you. I hate it when people abuse other's kindness.
@thislittlepennyearns (69034)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
31 Jul
I have changed my plans last minute for years to accomadate her, for her to turn around and poo on us. She's never truly thanked us for anything. I bankrolled tiny she childs whole birthday last year. Spent nearly $400 on it.
Its rediculous.
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@thislittlepennyearns (69034)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
31 Jul
@MarieCoyle She has one inbetween them. Who's fourteen or fifteen, that she lost custody of and got adopted out when she went to prison...one of the times.
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@MarieCoyle (60917)
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31 Jul
@thislittlepennyearns
Hopefully, she does not have more children other than the son and the little girl. It sounds like she is truly a piece of work.




