How do you do that?

By Toni
@toniganzon (80120)
Philippines
September 2, 2026 6:25pm CST
Create your own happiness! But how do you do that? When I was a kid I so longed to be an adult quite fast so I wouldn't have to be reprimanded and "controlled." When I became an adult, I wished I was a kid again because life was way simpler then. No complicated issues. All I had to do was study and play. I had a happy childhood. I was content. As an adult, i don't easily get contended. I always longed for something more. Happiness becomes elusive.
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@rakski (160170)
• Philippines
9h
I am one with you in that sentiment
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@toniganzon (80120)
• Philippines
3h
No matter how much we try to avoid it, complications seem to pop up like mushrooms.
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@toniganzon (80120)
• Philippines
3h
@rakski "Perks" of adulthood.
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@rakski (160170)
• Philippines
3h
@toniganzon that is very true! we can't avoid it. It comes rushing to us
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@Wrexxo (6510)
5h
Lol..I'm like that too..humans are not content. I guess I just think about happy memories..that lights me up a bit
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@toniganzon (80120)
• Philippines
3h
Yeah, we could always just think of the things we should be grateful about. That way, we can stay positive.
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@snowy22315 (212420)
• United States
11h
It definitely does seem harder to be happy when you are an adult.
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@toniganzon (80120)
• Philippines
3h
Yes, too many complications in life.
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@jstory07 (149552)
• Roseburg, Oregon
5h
I am happy with what I have. Life is good.
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@toniganzon (80120)
• Philippines
4h
Contentment is the key to pure happiness.
@LadyDuck (508776)
• Italy
10m
Good question, how do you create our own happiness? Often I would like to be again a kid.
@2ndchances24 (12609)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
11h
There's a lot more in life to being a adult than being a kid there's more worries, more decisions, more stress, & less time to enjoy life than when you were a kid.
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@toniganzon (80120)
• Philippines
3h
Exactly! Life was so much simpler when we were kids.
@AmbiePam (126186)
• United States
2h
I’m not happy, but I’m not unhappy. Is that contentment? I can’t tell. Maybe because of my lifelong battle with depression there will never be a steady to semi steady feeling of one thing. I do try to find joy in any moment that I can, and I think that is more attainable than happiness.