Have You Experience this...
By vehaileairu
@vehaileairu (2286)
Philippines
December 3, 2006 6:43am CST
when your partner becomes so obssesive, that when you turn your head to a guy, he'll start to freak out. you just look at someone, nothing at all, then he tell you "why wont you just go on with that guy".... then there goes our argument again and again. i dont get it. weve been near 5 years together and until now he does that... why are men that territorial? i never cheated him he knew it while he had it long ago at our first months, what is he afraid of?
im not like him. and never will..
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7 responses
@urzicutza (1971)
• Romania
3 Dec 06
well know i dont knoW!
that thing but my partneter is gelous to and i am my self to but not like that!
you know somrtimes love cand be obssesiv!you have to talk to him!
whe you are that gelous it says that that perosba doesent have fITH IN HIM SELF!
you have to make him feal like he is the only thing in you life!
give him that confidence tath he needs!
@vehaileairu (2286)
• Philippines
3 Dec 06
thank you... sometime they act so much..
but thanks for the reply..
@euniceeleanor (5966)
• Singapore
14 Dec 06
my ex-bf is exactly like that!!!! and we always got into such huge fights that resulted in me not looking at anyone at all except him. but now, with my current bf...i tend to tease him a lot when there's any beautiful girls that crosses our path and his head so happens go into that direction....but i know that he dont check them out LOL
@euniceeleanor (5966)
• Singapore
14 Dec 06
im sorry! i cant help it to add that i'm guilty of teasing my bf too...but it's not because i'm possesive...im just teasing him ;p
@missinghim (1339)
• United States
14 Dec 06
Truthfully, I think that he's the one cheating on you. It's just been my experience that when your partner just comes from out of no where with a bunch of accusations about you cheating... it's usually their guilty conscious trying to find a way to justify the wrong that they are committing. It usually has nothing to do with you, but everything to do with the fact that they themselves are feeling guilty.
@euniceeleanor (5966)
• Singapore
4 Dec 06
yeah! my ex-bf is exactly like that..i cannot look at any other guys except him and it's so annoying that i felt that i have my privacy invaded. but when he looked at other girls, it's normal..cos he's men!! Gosh! no suprise that we're not together anymore!
@crazy_me (588)
• Philippines
14 Dec 06
Luckily, NO. And if ever I'll have a relationship with a guy like that, I'll break up with him as soon as he becomes obsessive an possessive. I'm not possessive at all. When I see a pretty and/or sexy girl, I even tell my boyfriend to look at that girl. That's because it's just normal to look at beautiful people and things. When we stop appreciating beautiful creations, it's like we've already lost our eyesight.
I think you should break up with your guy, or at least confront him and tell him you're fed up with his immaturity. Ask him if he trusts you. 'Coz he's acting like he doesn't. A relationship without trust will never work.
