still waiting for my health insurance application to be accepted
By Valentina
@valherma00 (5660)
Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
September 22, 2026 1:19pm CST
yes, almost 3 months later. i am not sure if you remember one of my posts when this thing started in july.
i thought i was going to go in person in the end, which they said for me to do but by time, things got complicated and i felt i would be bullied in person.
i also contacted inspections and chairmen of health insurance only validated that they will send my info to their clerks and week after week, the same thing. i contacted inspection again but this only says someone is messing with me on purpose and with my health.
i can pick up pills for my blood pressure but i can't visit a dentist or do bloodwork and other things. i mean, i can but i have to pay and i don't want to and, yes, i wonder will there be a miracle for me cause, this is becoming a real horror.
last friday, there was a stabbing incident in a local high school here and ministry of health (which i contacted too) and all those chair people had activated themselves but that's only when crisis is going on.
i really wonder when is my turn cause, this is not funny anymore. even for black humour. i decided to contact media cause, not sure who can help me with this anymore.
and not sure if i said it cause i don't want to think of myself like that or be labelled but i am a civilian disabled person since 2024 but i waited for a year for people in charge to confirm that;yes, only a year. i don't have a lot of rights but it's not fun when you have in your life problems with anxiety, burning mouth syndrome (which pains me a lot), backpain/neck pain, autoimmune disease in remission and my fibromyalgia and sciatica and i'm 39,5.
maybe i have more things but i saw and experienced how doctors treat me with no interest so i'm helping myself with tai chi, yoga, music, mylotting, reading, buying vitamins but i can't apply myself for insurance, which is too bad. and yes, i receive some amount since last year but that's too small but i am still thankful.
i am also happy i'm not too ill or too disabled but this is already enough, i think.
sorry for sounding too down but, i am struggling for too long. also, it hurts how my illnesses are invisible so when someone sees me when i'm in a good mood or in general, they see a younger person who doesn't have any issue but, sadly, i have.
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@toniganzon (81935)
• Philippines
23 Sep
I am so sorry that you are going through tough times like that. It sucks when things are just so terrible and it's normal to be so down.
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@toniganzon (81935)
• Philippines
24 Sep
@valherma00 It is really very cruel if they're doing it to you to get back at you.
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@valherma00 (5660)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
28 Sep
@toniganzon they sent me to write one last statement and to sent them, which i did, again and 2 months ago but they didn't approve it before. after 3 months of noone caring, i am losing it a bit. yes, it's horrible if they are doing this for the greater evil and it's on on their conscience and karma must punish them.
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@AmbiePam (128711)
• United States
22 Sep
Oh, girl. I truly understand. I had a hard time getting doctors to take me seriously, because I LOOKED fine. Way too many people are overlooked because their health problems are invisible. Others just do not understand. And it took five years for me to get insurance!
You keep fighting any way you can.

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@valherma00 (5660)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
23 Sep
it's eating me inside, after all this time but, thank you for reminding me to not give up.i'll email them every single day, if i have to. yes, looks is everything to some people while inside, you're fighting a world war 3.
5 years, no way!
thank you, your support means a lot cause, i feel we have a similar journey or maybe i'm wrong but i feel you too and lots of hugs and kisses back.also, i'm listening some budhistic mantra to stay sane. 

also, some toxic family members contacted me so i feel extra pressure but i hope i'll come around.


also, some toxic family members contacted me so i feel extra pressure but i hope i'll come around.1 person likes this
@AmbiePam (128711)
• United States
23 Sep
@valherma00 We do have a similar journey, and I too have had to deal with toxic family members. It’s tough to get past.
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@valherma00 (5660)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
28 Sep
@AmbiePam yes. we wanted jsut support and love and got so many evil deeds inn return.you don't break a person over time, you break them graduall, after a decade and more.
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