Some things I find odd in old movies

@sissy15 (13512)
United States
September 24, 2026 9:19pm CST
Being an old movie and TV show viewer, there are a couple of things about the older movies and shows that I have always found a bit odd, especially back in the 50s and maybe a bit before. I remember watching old movies and TV shows and seeing the men kiss all of the women on the lips as a greeting or as a goodbye, and it always seemed so odd to me. I couldn't imagine a random guy friend just kissing me on the lips now. I thought it was odd when my stepfather-in-law kissed me on the cheek. It took me off guard because never in the history of my life has a man or woman, for that matter, kissed me on the cheek as a greeting. My mom will kiss me on the cheek when I'm leaving sometimes, but she's my mother. My dad doesn't do that. I don't know; maybe it's just how my family is. My family will hug each other, but we don't usually kiss each other. That said, family is one thing; random male friends you aren't related to kissing each other's wives has always felt strange to me. The other thing I have always found odd is the way they would always put a robe on over their pajamas whenever they got out of bed. It didn't matter if it was to answer a door or go to the bathroom. It wasn't even like they were wearing risque pajamas, and they always looked like warm pajamas, so they wouldn't need the robe for warmth. What is the purpose of putting on a robe over your pajamas to use the bathroom? That seems like an awful lot of trouble to go through just to walk into the bathroom that, in most cases, was directly attached to their bedroom, so they walked like twenty feet. It just always seemed weird to me. I could see putting on a robe if it was extra cold out or you weren't wearing a whole lot and were going to open the door, but not over a full pajama set to walk twenty feet to the bathroom. Is there anything you've seen in movies that just seems weird to you?
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@JudyEv (389020)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Sep
Nowadays it seems weird to see everyone smoking!
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@sissy15 (13512)
• United States
41m
I agree, that is a weird one.
@Wrexxo (8231)
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25 Sep
Yeah the kissing thing always got me too, felt so formal for something so casual back then. And the robe over pajamas just to walk to the bathroom, I always wondered who they were trying to impress at 3am. Guess old movies just had their own set of rules nobody explains anymore.
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@sissy15 (13512)
• United States
32m
I know they had the Hays Code in the US back then, where they had to keep movies more wholesome, but the idea of having to cover up your already completely covered body with a robe didn't make sense to me. The kissing thing didn't happen in every movie or TV show, but I'm struggling to remember which ones it did happen in even though I'm positive I saw it because I remember finding it so odd. One day I'll find one and give an example; I just don't know when that day is.
@AmbiePam (128041)
• United States
25 Sep
The robe situation struck me as odd too. Though, I never noticed the non relative kissing situation. Maybe my old TV show viewing doesn’t go back far enough. I do remember always wondering why in the world the women in old TV shows and movies would continue to wear their high heels once they got home. No changing into flats or slippers? Nowadays, they don’t bother putting women into sky high heels when they are stay at home moms or teachers. They’ve let realism sneak into the scripts a little bit.
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@sissy15 (13512)
• United States
34m
I looked up the old movie and TV show kissing thing because I distinctly remember seeing it, but for the life of me, I couldn't think of anything offhand. Apparently, movies and things that had it were more European-inspired. I know the Hays Code prevented a lot of things because they wanted movies and television to be more wholesome and family-oriented. I also know there were movies in the 80s and 90s that had the whole kissing a friend on the lips thing, which I also forgot about. It wasn't a romantic kiss or anything; it was just a quick kiss on the lips as a way of saying hello or goodbye. I have always found this weird, no matter the year it happened. I agree, it is weird and not realistic to see women doing errands or household chores in heels. They were also always dressed nicely around the house. To be fair, back then style was a whole other thing. Women took more pride in dressing up and looking nice no matter what they were doing. I never understood the need for it other than for them to please their husbands, which nowadays isn't something we worry about as much. My husband always sees me in sweats or jeans and doesn't think anything of it. I also never wear heels. I am always sporting tennis shoes. I would not have survived back in that time period. I can't even walk in heels.
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