My kid never makes a Christmas list

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I have always seen kids making these giant Christmas lists for their parents, heck, I was one of those kids when I was little, but to be fair, my childhood had toy commercials in between every single show, making kids want whatever new awesome toy had just been advertised. They had Toys R' Us catalogs, and honestly, Christmas catalogs for almost every major store where kids went through and saw and circled every toy they came across. My son is quite the opposite of most kids I know. Every year I ask him what he wants for Christmas, and every year he tells me he doesn't know. When he was smaller, he would tell me a few things, but it was never a lot. He doesn't see a lot of toy commercials or really any commercials at all. We don't have cable, and the ads they show on streaming apps are seldom for anything he would want. He almost never asks me for anything. He doesn't want much, and even if he did, he doesn't like telling me because he doesn't want me to spend a ton of money. He keeps telling me he wants to get a job so he can help us with things, and I keep telling him that's not his job, and if he did get a job, he would save it because I'm not taking it. He knows things are expensive, and we have always told him he'll always have what he needs, but he may not always get what he wants; he has never gone without. Sometimes he has bigger Christmases than others, but somehow we have always made it happen. He doesn't get a lot most of the year, but at Christmas I've always tried to make it happen. One of the benefits of being close to my son is that, even if he doesn't make a list, I know him well enough that I can usually get him things he likes. I always try to do one big gift. My son doesn't have average interests, so shopping for him can be fun. I don't mean that in a sarcastic way, but in a literal way. He is actually fun to shop for. He doesn't want much, but he is always happy with everything he gets. He's an old soul and loves most retro things. He loves old video games, and he loves old movies and music. He loves Dean Martin; he loves hats even though he almost never wears them. He loves learning about wars. He is really into Pokémon and Japan. He loves music. He loves cats. He loves comfy clothes but also likes dressing up a little. He'd live in hoodies and sweats most of the time, but also enjoys looking "Shnazzy," as he says it. He also really loves tiny things like trinkets. His favorite colors are yellow and gray. He isn't your typical teenager in most ways. Every year, I've managed to get him things he loves. I usually make sure to get him new hoodies and sweats along with some cat shirts. Last year for Christmas, he got a T-Shirt with a cat made like Jaws that said "Paws." This year, I'm looking at one with the cats dressed up like KISS that says HISS. He is all about his cat shirts. He's getting quite the collection. The fact that he never wants anything always makes me want to get him more. He is also a big foodie. He loves food. He is still somewhat picky about vegetables, but will still eat them in different forms. He likes some raw but not cooked, and some cooked but not raw. He's his own unique person. He has always been my little buddy, even now that he's not so little. I love spending time with him because he's funny and sweet. I love how different he is. I love that he likes what he likes, whether it's cool or not. He is one of the very best humans I know, so while he may not ask for much, I will always go above and beyond to try and find things I know he'll like.