What makes a family photo feel natural to you?

Munich, Germany
October 24, 2026 3:01pm CST
I'm a family photographer in Munich, Germany, and I keep noticing that the photos parents love most are rarely the perfectly posed ones. It's the moments in between: a child laughing at a sibling, a parent looking down at a newborn. What makes a photo feel real and natural to you? Do you prefer posed portraits or candid shots?
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24 Oct
What makes a photo feel real and natural to you? Thanks for asking, Anja! Most of all, the sense that the photo was taken by a family member or close friend, and usually in situations that a professional photographer wouldn't actually be welcome in. Like Christmas morning with the kids - some things are not meant for outsiders to attend. But that's just me and I am an old grouch.
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@Juliaacv (57771)
• Canada
25 Oct
Photo taken in the moment feel the best to me. That way we can capture a feeling, not just an image. Feelings with the images last far longer than the stone cold posed photos.
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• Philippines
24 Oct
For what I consider a perfect shot is those that aren't choregraphed and just made out of bloopers because you will definitely see the authentic reaction to the subject. Thank you for sharing and welcome to myLot!
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@xFiacre (15474)
• Ireland
24 Oct
@anjajepsen I prefer photos of my kids when they don’t realise that they are being photographed.
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@Deepizzaguy (126138)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
24 Oct
I prefer posed portraits than candid shots.
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@thelme55 (80298)
• Germany
6h
I prefer stolen shots. The moment when I take photos of my son or husband without them knowing.
@May2k8 (20187)
• Indonesia
16h
usually other people are not involved in family photos, welcome!
@LadyDuck (504861)
• Italy
9h
No posed photo is natural. I also like photos where people did not expect to be photographed.
@Shiva49 (28802)
• Singapore
12h
I love spontaneous moments especially of children. Posed portraits are only for official purposes.
@nawala123 (24693)
• Indonesia
16h
a photo at the perfect moment
@Wrexxo (10067)
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24 Oct
Candid for me every time. The posed ones look nice but the messy in between ones are what actually bring back the feeling of that day.