Steps

@AmbiePam (131825)
United States
October 27, 2026 12:52pm CST
Do you have any steps in your family? This is my stepmom, Diana. I used to refer to her as my dad’s wife, and people on Mylot didn’t understand why I didn’t just refer to her as my stepmom. It was because I was 35 when they got married, and it felt weird. So I referred to her once as my stepmom in front of my dad, and the look on his face was comical. He didn’t think of her as my stepmom either. She IS absolutely the grandmother of Amyra, Hudson, and Annelyn. While Diana has older grandchildren, and they love my dad, they aren’t about to refer to him as a grandfather. I think age matters a lot. Do you have any steps in your family? Stepmother, father, and the like? Diana is a gem. *Picture of Diana on cruise.
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@JohnRoberts (108263)
• Los Angeles, California
5h
At first I thought you met steps like counting walking steps lol. No, step relatives here.
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@AmbiePam (131825)
• United States
4h
I did that on purpose although I’m not sure why. Never in my life did I think I would have had a stepmother. Then again, I didn’t think my 46 year old mother would be diagnosed with dementia.
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@Wrexxo (10164)
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1h
Used to have a stepdad.. sadly, he passed away
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@AmbiePam (131825)
• United States
1h
I thought of your wonderful stepdad when I wrote this, Michael. I am still so sorry he is gone.
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@Wrexxo (10164)
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1h
@AmbiePam it's fine.. thanks
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@snowy22315 (214164)
• United States
1h
No steps in the family. Diana looks pleasant.
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@AmbiePam (131825)
• United States
1h
She lucked out when she married my dad, but we think we got a pretty good deal with her too. She’s a lovely, kind hearted lady who has a good attitude no matter what.
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@toniganzon (82388)
• Philippines
Just now
No I don't have any steps in the family at all. I do have a half sister. My father never acknowledged her as his daughter. The mother was my grandparents' housemaid. My father had his reason for denying her. We learned about her existence when I was already 8 years old. It was my mom who told us about it. Not my father.
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@wolfgirl569 (141828)
• Marion, Ohio
1h
I have step daughters. But as far as I am concerned they are mine
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@AmbiePam (131825)
• United States
1h
I like that!
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@RasmaSandra (101800)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
39m
Sure my husband's kids in Latvia a stepdaughter and family with stepgrandchild and a stepson, I only contact with my stepdaughter,
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@AmbiePam (131825)
• United States
30m
I’m glad you keep in contact with her.
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@Juliaacv (57750)
• Canada
4h
No steps here in either my family nor my hubby's.
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• Rupert, Idaho
4h
That makes sense, especially with age mattering a lot with that kind of stuff. No steps in my family
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