A visit and grief.
By marguicha
@marguicha (230993)
Chile
November 10, 2026 4:29pm CST
A couple of days ago I received the visit of a friend I hadn´t seen for several years. She lives in a town about 600 Km from Santiago and her only son lives here with his family. She told me that his son wanted her to move to Santiago and I told her about the place where I was moving and why.
Then we talked about other subjects. She told me about her new special friend, a poet who lives in Santiago. They see each other when she comes and talks with him every other day.
It was a wonderful visit but a couple of hours after that my friend Luis (Martín father and friend of my friend´s special friend) wanted to know how to reach her. Enrique, the poet, was not answering his phone and noone had a key to his apartment.
They called Virginia and they went to his apartment with her as she had a key. They found him alone and dead.
We hope he did not suffer because he was in his bed.
I then thought that if I had bought or rented a small house this could have happened to me too. I´m very glad that I decided to stay at a senior house even though I will have to give away most of my belongings.
People of my generation are dying.
We have to think about short term projects. The last time I went to Aruba, I said good bye. I had gone there at least 10 times, with different people.
Today I´m sorting pictures. I am not taking them all. I´ll choose some to fill a couple of albums and the rest will have to be thrown away. But this, too has been that I have discovered jewels. I´ll take with me a picture of my husband and I in Las Vegas. We were young, beautiful and happy. And the Earth was young too.

We hope he did not suffer because he was in his bed.
I then thought that if I had bought or rented a small house this could have happened to me too. I´m very glad that I decided to stay at a senior house even though I will have to give away most of my belongings.
People of my generation are dying.
We have to think about short term projects. The last time I went to Aruba, I said good bye. I had gone there at least 10 times, with different people.
Today I´m sorting pictures. I am not taking them all. I´ll choose some to fill a couple of albums and the rest will have to be thrown away. But this, too has been that I have discovered jewels. I´ll take with me a picture of my husband and I in Las Vegas. We were young, beautiful and happy. And the Earth was young too.

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6 responses
@AmbiePam (132984)
• United States
15h
@marguicha That’s wonderful. There’s a lady in our church that lives in a place like you’re moving. They have so many things it’s unbelievable, and she has made a couple of very dear friends. They’ve even started coming to church with her.
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@wolfgirl569 (142547)
• Marion, Ohio
16h
That's sad. As we get older we do need people checking on us at least
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@RasmaSandra (102259)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
18h
Such a sad thing to happen. I sit here in my little apartment and know that someday I will be carried out, so now I too am thinking of throwing out all that is not necessary and living myself with the very minimum. Someday you will be young and beautiful again and giving your hand to your husband and glad to see him again,
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@marguicha (230993)
• Chile
16h
I can now close my eyes and give my hand to him.

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