Aspergers children

@Krisss (1231)
Australia
December 6, 2006 8:53am CST
The Misunderstood Child I am the child that looks healthy and fine. I was born with ten fingers and toes. But something is different, somewhere in my mind. And what it is, nobody knows. I am the child that struggles in school, Though they say that I'm perfectly smart. They tell me I'm lazy - can learn if I try, But I don't seem to know where to start. I am the child that won't wear the clothes which hurt me or bother my feet. I dread sudden noises, can't handle most smells, and tastes - there are few I'll eat. I am the child that can't catch the ball And runs with an awkward gait. I am the one chosen last on the team and I cringe as I stand there and wait. I am the child with whom no one will play - the one that gets bullied and teased. I try to fit in and I want to be liked, But nothing I do seems to please. I am the child that tantrums and freaks over things that seem petty and trite. You'll never know how I panic inside, when I'm lost in my anger and fright. I am the child that fidgets and squirms Though I'm told to sit still and be good Do you think that I choose to be out of control? Don't you know that I would if I could? I am the child with the broken heart Though I act like I don't really care. Perhaps there's a reason God made me this way - Some message he sent me to share. For I am the child that needs to be loved And accepted and valued too. I am the child that is misunderstood, I am different - but I look just like you.
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@MrNiceGuy (4141)
• United States
19 Dec 06
Yeah, Apergers is at the higher end of the Autism spectrum. They are usually normal kids that just can't function normally in social situations. They might be severely unsocial or just awkward. You can usually tell when someone is Aspergers after spending a bit of time with them, they are very interested in talking to you even if they aren't responding to the feedback you give them.
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@rebelann (111223)
• El Paso, Texas
19 Feb 20
So many people are just like that.
• United States
20 Dec 06
I feel for this misunderstood child-----I have met many children like this and I just wish this excerpt also included more positive things-----skills, passions, interests etc------People with aspergers or just any of us have many positive things that make us who we are too--- I know one person who has an incredible memory! I wish I could remember as many details an this friend of mine! I have another friend who has great physical stamina-----can be quite physically active----definitely longer than I last and gets to enjoy the outdoors so much more fully than I can since he can climb and explore so well! Let us not forget each of our gifts alongside of our challenges-----God knows each of us has both!!!
@rebelann (111223)
• El Paso, Texas
19 Feb 20
I'm glad you see the positive side of things.
@remaster74 (4064)
• Greece
20 Dec 06
You are the child that hasn't discovered the truth yet. You have to see what lies beyond the special personality you own. To see how to make all these specialties to flourish and help you through life.
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@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
6 Dec 06
What amazing insight and sensitivity. Thanks for sharing this.
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@Krisss (1231)
• Australia
7 Dec 06
Thank you. When I think back to my own schooldays there are many kids in the class that this fits perfectly. Its sad isnt it.
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@missyd79 (3438)
• United States
19 Dec 06
wow it sounds so much like my son, but his psychologist just wrote it off as a normal 4 year old behavior. but i guess i will definately watch him once he gets older.
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@Krisss (1231)
• Australia
20 Dec 06
4 year old boys are a special breed, I hope its just the age he is and he grows up to be happy and healthy.
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• United States
19 Feb 07
Thanks Kriss for the beautiful poem about Aspergers. I believe my son has a bit of this syndrome. I only hurt because I want him to be happy and I want the world to accept him as he is. We see a beautiful, creative, gentle being. He has his quirks and wants things his way. Children are cruel and he is starting his school career with excitement and joy. I dread the day he realizes the social problems he has will affect his life.
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@Krisss (1231)
• Australia
20 Feb 07
All you can do is build up his self esteem and makes sure home is always a safe place to fall when the world is a harsh place to be. The very best of luck with him.
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
11 Sep 08
your writing clearly illustrates the mind and behaviour of an aspergers child. Well done.
• Canada
21 Feb 07
Thank you for sharing this. It is amazing how it describes my son to a tee.
@Krisss (1231)
• Australia
22 Feb 07
How old is your son? Print it off and reread it at times when you are frustrated with him. I wish you and he all the best :)
• Canada
23 Feb 07
My son is 7 1/2. And yes, I think I will print it off. Thanks again:)
@wmdurcan (103)
• United States
6 Mar 07
This made me feel so sad. My 10yo has AS. He struggles so hard with EVERYTHING. It breaks my heart. I wish that I could get inside his head, and I pray he will be happy and turn out alright. But, I worry that he won't be able to take care of himself someday, and I won't be there to help him out.
@rebelann (111223)
• El Paso, Texas
19 Feb 20
That's beautifully put.