How To Have a Discreet Affair

United States
December 8, 2006 2:00pm CST
This is taken from haveadiscreetaffair.com How To Have a Discreet Affair Discreet affairs can be an exciting experience for both parties. In most cases, the people involved in affairs are in boring relationships and are really just looking for some exciting encounters. The key to have a successful affair is keeping things as discreet as possible... The best way to find someone who's interested in an affair is to look online. If are curious about whether to have an affair or not you should check out all the others who are looking for affairs. There are literally thousands of guys and girls looking for discreet affairs. To check out profiles and pictures of the people looking for affairs for free, click your location from the options below. You will be taken through a 2 stage free registration process and then you can check out the profiles available. What do you think of this website? Does it make you sick or do you think you'll start using it now?
31 responses
@kawillow74 (1416)
• United States
9 Dec 06
I think it is sick and why would you even post a website for everyone to look at it if you what to have a affair get a damn divorce or don't marry at all. Yes my father was a cheater and it destoryed our family so I do get pissed when I see BS like this.
• United States
9 Dec 06
Oh ya I do have one more thing for you. If that is you and your baby in the picture why not spend more time with your baby instead of checking out that sick web-site ok I am done with you now!
• United States
9 Dec 06
Its pathetic. Its disgusting. Why is marriage now just a piece of paper?? Its horrible. When I get married in March, I intend to live by my vows and honor and cherish my husband. I have been completely faithful, and I will forever stay that way! I love him with all my heart and soul and would NEVER do this to him, NEVER!
• United States
9 Dec 06
I really hope that you have a very happy married life and really there should be more people in this world who make the committment to never cheat on their spouse and then the steadfastness to hold to their vows even when times get hard.
@doctorul (1058)
• Romania
9 Dec 06
Why do you feel sick! People have many choises in this world! So you do! Mind your own life and let the others mind theirs! That's fair for everybody! Greetings!
• United States
9 Dec 06
That's fair for everybody? Is it fair for the spouse that's getting cheated on? I don't think so.
@caribe (2465)
• United States
9 Dec 06
It doesn't matter how pretty you paint it, it is wrong. If the marriage is that bad, get out of it so you can go wild. But those discreet affairs have a way of becoming not so discreet and you hurt everybody involved. You hurt yourself, your spouse, your children and those of your lover. It is wrong. Get over those kind of thoughts.
@wyykidd (1460)
• Singapore
9 Dec 06
I definitely agree with you. This is so sick! Imagine a website that actually encourages people to have discreet affairs??? What on earth is the world coming to?? If one has bad marriage, then get out of it! Having affairs is a terrible thing & it hurts many people.
@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
9 Dec 06
Who knows that the other party won't mess up with your family ... somemore this so call website will be very hard to keep our privacy especially when everyone can log on to see our profile yea
• United States
9 Dec 06
I thought that part was kind of funny too! Here, have a discreet affair, just post your photo so the rest of the world can check it out and know that you're a cheater! That's real smart!
• United States
9 Dec 06
I think its sick. Im sorry but why the hell do you even bother to get married if you cant stay faithful? Ugh it's just a joke now adays...people dont take it as serious as before becuase it's so easy to just get a divorce. People seem to have forgotten what it means to get married...they've forgotten about the vows that they've taken. They've lost all meaning.
• United States
9 Dec 06
I agree with you about it being too easy to get a divorce. I was at a book store not too long ago and do you know those bright yellow books that say stuff like: The Dummies Guide to Computers or The Dummies Guide to Car Mechanics? They actually publish a Dummies Guide to Divorce!! People will do anything to make money, even destroy families.
@PhonetiX (339)
9 Dec 06
lol i didnt even know that a websit like this actually existed lol. im married and happy being married. i really dont think that i would ever use such a website
@blueman (16509)
• India
9 Dec 06
i think if you are with the one you love, you would want to have a discreet relationship.
@medooley (1873)
• United States
9 Dec 06
And do I dare ask what you were doing there missy? I will not be using this website.
@nebulla (127)
• India
15 Dec 06
You decide to meet a person because you feel you want to give a chance to yourself in love. The powerful word. LOVE. If you first understand what it is then you go for a date your mind will be clearer. This is what I found out. I shall share it with you. Love entices you into its arms but it is enough to hold you there for only so long. You may grow restless with reality, with the day to day tedium of work. You may itch long to have the carefree delights of passion again...to fall in love all over again just for the feeling. If you fall for that, you will find yourself moving from relationship to relationship always in search of what you only find in the beginning. Love, true long-term love requires more than just being there. It requires that you invest in your relationship; that you work with your partner to succeed. You must create a new love that is deeper and stronger than the fleeting thrill of passion. Together you can build a bond that no one or no thing can break. You can be comfortable in the safety of your relationship. And you can grow in your shared understanding. You can achieve your dreams with your loving partner by your side. Then you are truly in love. This is the opportunity and challenge of love.
• United States
8 Dec 06
This is sick. Marriage nowadays seems like a big joke to most people. How sad. Nothing is sacred anymore. I find it terrible how no one seems to be faithful or even seems to try. What the heck happened to two people trying their hardest to make things work and stay committed to one another? Relationships are work. Maybe everyone's just become too lazy. It's pitiful.
• United States
9 Dec 06
If they got married in the first place it begs the question was s/he they really in love in the first place? Or are they too lazy to make their marriage work? Marriage is a HUGE commitment but some people take it to lightly. Therefore, they shouldn't be married. In Japan, there was an report in Tokyo's IHT Asahi Shimbun newspaper where if the husband wants to be rid of his wife but has no reason to divorce her then he pays a marriage busters agency to have a a good looking man (couple-buster) to 'accidentally' meet the client's wife. The couple-buster manipulates the relationship and they start to have an affair. Before long, the wife then wants to get a divorce to commence with her affair. Then the "hired lover" disappears from the wife's life never to be seen again. And then the husband now has grounds for a divorce. These type of businesses are so sick!
@drumm1n (499)
• India
9 Dec 06
what is wrong with you , y would you want to have a discreet affair! your realtions is not worth it if you want to have a discreet affair, id say u break up immeadeately.please change your way of thinking!
@bingbing (24)
• Philippines
9 Dec 06
It makes me sick!!! It makes me wonder if marriage means anything anymore. It seems like some people are caught up with the fantasy that marriage is all bliss and the moment something goes wrong they don't want to do it anymore. Ugh! It makes me angry. It's not a joke! And marriage should also be called working-it-out-with-each-other, sometimes I feel people give up too easily. They just fall in love too easily and ugh... now I'm getting depressed I think I'll shut up now.
@medooley (1873)
• United States
9 Dec 06
Unfortantly to a lot of people marriages really don't mean much anymore. It is a sad sad world that we live in.
@tavish (46)
• India
9 Dec 06
thats really really screwed up!!! i dont think anyone should indulge in any affair of any sort!! its just WRONG!! you basically have no value what so ever for the relationship youre in!! if youre seeing or are interested in seeing someone else, the least you can do is respect your partner by being honest about it!!! i really think it just isnt fair... im not even going to bother going to that site... jeez!
@shooie (4984)
• United States
9 Dec 06
hmmmm not going to look....why would I. I married for better or worse...what happens if there is an oops....does one tell their spouse they were raped or what?....
@jewel76 (2305)
• Canada
9 Dec 06
It is sick!! They complain that less and less People get married today and have children, and they put up these kinds of websites!! Anything to make money right?
• India
9 Dec 06
that's a shame, betraying your partner always end with sorrow , problems , legal cases, social problems etc. , one should rather make more good friends to live life happily , otherwise one have no other option than to reget lather.
• United States
9 Dec 06
Well, it is not for me. There is other people out there that it might be something they are interested in. That of coure is their choice and decision. Not my place to judge what they do.
• Ireland
9 Dec 06
I think this is disgusting.
• United States
9 Dec 06
Marriage is suppose to be a union of two people joining their lives together with a promise of faithfulness. Affairs happen all the time for many different reasons but this site promotes it and is wrong