bingbing

@bingbing (24)

Philippines • Age 43

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I Need your ADVISE plleeeeeaaaaaassseeee!!!

sweetbabe77 @sweetbabe77 (224) • Philippines 10 Dec 06

I have been separated from my husband since april this year due to some personal problems...He is too irresponsible, no job at all and flirty..but i admit i also have some shortcomings when it comes to our relationship, then i...

relationship

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bingbing It's complicated, and I'm sorry. Marriage never is a picnic all the time. I hope that you're just hitting a rough patch and you can work it out. Talk to him about how you feel about his "irresponsibility" and other things that bug you first before you decide...

10 Dec 06

Where are you typing from right now?

eventualist @eventualist (819) • Canada 7 Dec 06

I'm in Canada myself :) Up in my bedroom on my desktop computer. I ask this because one thing that just amazes me is just how many people from around the world can write to each other on sites like this, as if they were just...

country

location

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bingbing I'm in the Philippines. In front of the pooter in the living room. I have seriously got to disconnect from the internet when I'm working on a deadline!!!

9 Dec 06

Where are you from?

R3fl3XioN @R3fl3XioN (3187) • France 17 Nov 06

I'm from France and you?

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bingbing I'm from the Philippines. :)

8 Dec 06

What Nationality are you?

Lovely_Lady @Lovely_Lady (1523) • United States 13 Nov 06

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bingbing I am a Filipino. But my ancestry is chinese, arab/turk, spanish and malay.

8 Dec 06

How To Have a Discreet Affair

imadriscoll @imadriscoll (2228) • United States 8 Dec 06

This is taken from haveadiscreetaffair.com How To Have a Discreet Affair Discreet affairs can be an exciting experience for both parties. In most cases, the people involved in affairs are in boring relationships and are...

discreet affairs

sick

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bingbing It makes me sick!!! It makes me wonder if marriage means anything anymore. It seems like some people are caught up with the fantasy that marriage is all bliss and the moment something goes wrong they don't want to do it anymore. Ugh! It makes me angry. It's...

8 Dec 06

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What is most frusterating to you about your spouse?

dragonflyfli @dragonflyfli (5528) • United States 18 Nov 06

My husband doesnt acknowledge when i clean something and he messes it up again without cleaning it up... He doesnt listen to me, everything i say is forgoten within 2 minutes.... The second he comes home from work he goes online...

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bingbing I'm frustrated that we can't have a conversation! I have to constantly ask him a question to get things out of him. I feel like I'm interviewing him instead of having a conversation. :-

8 Dec 06

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Where's a good romantic place to go for a honeymoon?

Lovely_Lady @Lovely_Lady (1523) • United States 14 Nov 06

Where would you go for a romantic honeymoon?

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bingbing Hmmm... I would go to El Nido. It's an island in Palawan, Philippines. Haven't been there yet. You may want to check out their website. Here it is: http://www.elnidoresorts.com. Take the virtual tour, I'm falling in love with it more and more every time I go...

8 Dec 06

Do you have a special name for your spouse?

beckyomg1 @beckyomg1 (6756) • United States 8 Dec 06

Do you have a special name that you call your spouse or signficant other?

family

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bingbing I call him love, darling, little one and flower. Oh and he loves me calling him Jamie (his name is James).

8 Dec 06

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Asian people : What do you think of them?

euniceeleanor @euniceeleanor (5966) • Singapore 7 Dec 06

since we have members from all over the world, including from the western countries, i will like to hear what is your opinion on asian people? i've heard terrible story that in certain countries, asian are being looked down upon...

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bingbing It is interesting. I'm a Christian Asian, and I've been only to one wedding and it was we normally think of a wedding: ceremony and reception. I get too excited when I see cultural things and stuff. :)

8 Dec 06

heart break and sorrow

cooky28 @cooky28 (739) • Australia 7 Dec 06

How many have lost some one nearest and dearest to there heart. I have lost both my parents, and both my sisters,and miss them very much.

heartake

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bingbing I lost my grandparents and I haven't really mourned my grnadmother yet. I want to say sorry but I can't, and I am. So I guess I'll get over it and be better with the ones who are still living. :D

8 Dec 06

waht are the options when we cannot bear children?

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 12 Nov 09

like most couples, my relative got married with the expectation that it would not be too long before they would have their own family, however, after many months of waiting they were forced to accept that they would never have the...

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bingbing like most couples, my relative got married with the expectation that it would not be too long before they would have their own family, however, after many months of waiting they were forced to accept that they would never have the joy of expecting a child....

12 Nov 09

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Do you read?

dragonflyfli @dragonflyfli (5528) • United States 5 Oct 06

What is your favorite thing to read?

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bingbing Yep. I read the newspaper, magazines, novels, encyclopedias, blogs, virtually anything I can get my hands on. My favorite book is Feast of All Saints by Anne Rice. My fave in the Bible is Song of Songs. My fave comic strip is Garfield.

8 Dec 06

Conversations with God!

Kylalynn @Kylalynn (1771) • South Africa 8 Dec 06

I recently posted a discussion on the expression Oh my God used in all American reality shows. I was informed that it is slang and taking the lords name in vain. I read the book Conversations with God, which I thoroughly enjoyed....

bestseller

book

conversations with god

cursing

name

swearing

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bingbing I am not comfortable with taking God's name lightly. I cringe with anything said lightheartedly, even if they do not mean to offend.

8 Dec 06

Conversations with God!

Kylalynn @Kylalynn (1771) • South Africa 8 Dec 06

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bingbing FITH. People just put their trust in Him who they believe helps them through life's dramas. You just believe, it doesn't have to be rational, and you don't have to see it to believe it. We just believe... like a nonbeliever trusts the good in life and things...

8 Dec 06

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I get picked at school for being an ATHEIST. What can I do?

cyberhacker665 @cyberhacker665 (92) • Greece 8 Dec 06

It all started 3 days ago,like everyone here in Greece (by the way I am not Greek), I go to school every day and it was my turn to say the prayer in front of the whole school . When I got close to the mic i said to my proffesor...

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bingbing I don't think it's right that you're being singled out and sort of discriminated against. My opinion on it is because they think you're on the wrong not to believe in God and while they may find it unbelievable, it irks the life out of them, too. I am not an...

8 Dec 06

how did God help you through your life's bad experiences..any miracle?

eulou23 @eulou23 (33) • Philippines 23 Nov 06

God has helped me in so many ways that i can't hardly imagine where i get so much blessings..from who?

god

miracle

prayer

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bingbing I can't recall any miracles. What gets me through the bad times in my life is my belief that God's delays do not mean denials and His answers are always wiser than my prayers.

8 Dec 06

GAWAD KALINGA: a work for the poor

hwanix @hwanix (32) • Philippines 8 Dec 06

Gawad Kalinga (GK) , translated in English means “to give care,” and it is an alternative solution to the blatant problem of poverty not just in the Philippines but the world. Its approach is integrated, holistic and sustainable –...

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bingbing I have a Gawad Kalinga shirt! Only cause my best friend gave it to me as a birthday gift, I've been wanting to volunter for so long now. I feel a sense of purpose when I participate in similar activities.

8 Dec 06

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Were you teased as a child?

ffnstuff @ffnstuff (411) • United States 5 Dec 06

I was listening to the radio about kids being teased and bullied. They were talking about different methods of handling it and it got me thinking about when I was a kid. I had big thick glasses and was constantly teased. I...

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bingbing I was bigger then most Asian kids and fat, I've been called pregnant, Godzilla, etc. It hurt yeah, but I never went to the extent of punching anyone. I made up for my "oddity" with my personality. ^_^

6 Dec 06

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Poor = Stupid

helpful_ideas @helpful_ideas (1620) • United States 5 Dec 06

Why do people equate poor and stupid? Just because I don't have as much money as you, doesn't mean I don't understand the words you are saying. I just got off the phone with a doctor's office which I was told to call. The...

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bingbing Sorry you had to go through that. I think it's down right rude of that person to feel the need that she had to sort of spell it out for you that you need to pay. I say you should have a word with the management. I admire you for deciding to wait til you get...

6 Dec 06

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What are you feeling on Mowhawks!!

Berg1010 @Berg1010 (208) • United States 4 Dec 06

So heres the deal some of my friends went and shaved their heads and now they have mowhawks, they also talked me into getting one so I did, and I'm pretty happy with it, it looks good on me!!What do you think about them??

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bingbing It looks cool. I think part of the fun is getting your hair cut/shaved. And that guy with the red shirt in the photo... love the tattoos woohoo... I just had to say that.

6 Dec 06

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