Spending too much time with someone
By Piratesware
@Piratesware (2888)
Indonesia
December 11, 2006 7:20pm CST
I work with him, I live with him, I eat with him and I won't go into the private things we do together but after a while we both need alone time! Luckily we both understand that and give each other room. Even my mother who understands and knows me best gets on my nerves after a few weeks (I'm sure I get on hers) and well how much time is too much to spend with someone on a regular basis before cracking?
5 responses
@sharksfin (1091)
• Philippines
5 Jan 07
Everyone needs room. It is the only healthy way to stay in a relationship. We all need growth and growth doesn't happen with just one person. It doesn't happen in one place. Spending too much time with one person could or couldn't be so bad but extremes could be bad. Maturity is still a magnanimous factor. But it's better not to so you won't grow tired of each other easily. Come on we all need time to breathe. *smile*
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@purposedriven (842)
• United States
5 Jan 07
You are right...we do need time to breathe. Their space is something that everyone find hardest to let go of. Thanks, great answer!
@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
I would not hesitate to spend too much time with someone that I truly love. I remeber my Ex Boyfriend whom I spent day in day out and I enjoyed everyday being with him. I still miss him and being with him. I closed my eyes every night and kiss him goodnight then I wake up in the morning kissing him good morning ofcourse with the extra activities that come along in bed!
@purposedriven (842)
• United States
5 Jan 07
You are right, you shouldn't hesitate to spend as much time as you can with the person you love. You just never know when that could end...so you cherish it for as long as possible.
@midnightuser (252)
• United States
12 Dec 06
That's funny, now that I am in school i miss it so much. Over the summer i lived with my boyfriend, worked with him, showered with him, ate with him everything. And neither one of us ever got sick of the other. I'm sure after a year we might but we went 6 months like that. I think that time is different with everyone, i know though when i do need time from my boyfriend we both get it.
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@purposedriven (842)
• United States
5 Jan 07
It's natural for people who are in love to miss each other when they are apart. You are right, it depends on the individuals involved and the amount of time together. Every couple is different. I hope that it never changes for you as time goes by. Cherish your time together as much as you can.
@Piratesware (2888)
• Indonesia
5 Jan 07
thank's sis hope my decision live together with my mate, is right
@Piratesware (2888)
• Indonesia
5 Jan 07
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@Piratesware (2888)
• Indonesia
5 Jan 07
hmm...u looks like has experience with this conditions I post
